• fedditter@feddit.org
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      Well I tried to reduce my automatic masking abilities a while ago and I feel more comfortable in my own body since. But still no frends :3 I think being multiple personalities at once is just my personality. Differentiate and Integrate. Hard process. Still in it. Help.

      Also why are 60% of all autism posts by you?

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        Also why are 60% of all autism posts by you?

        Only 60% of posts by one individual actually means the community is active and thriving. Are you familiar with the 90-9-1 rule? Lemmy is still small enough that most communities that are any activity at all are being carried by a single individual.

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          Having a small community is a blessing and a curse. Reddit grew too large of a user base, and the quality of interactions took a significant decline around 2015 or so. I’m hoping Lemmy (and federation in general) can bring back what I found special about Reddit around 2009-2010.

          I see some of the issues that Reddit has (one-word or low-effort comments, people not reading the article, atrocious grammar/spelling), but it doesn’t seem to be the norm. I’ve been visiting Lemmy for around a year but have finally decided to stop using Reddit and become active over here.

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            Those issues you point out (“that reddit has”) seem to be common on all medium/large platforms. One word comments like “first” and “this” were common on sites like digg, long before reddit came along. And spelling/grammar mistakes are older than the internet.

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          What if that one individual is not well informed? Makes all others look like dumb sheeps. I am scared of this.

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            Then be that poster yourself, I guess? There’s not much that can be done about this, this is just sort of how human beings work. Most people are going to be silent consumers and lurkers.