I suppose that specifically I am wondering if there are any things you do to perhaps:
- stay calm
- calm the other person down
- get them to understand you better
- understand their point of view
- diffuse trolls
- just be a good person who wants to participate in a conversation that enhances your understanding of others, different cultures, and the world and how it works
Sorry but 3 I would say write clearly, with studies and make sure you are well educated in the points you are making.
I don’t think people are apposed to being told differently, although I would say don’t exhaust yourself repeating these point. Some people are opposed to your ideas and that’s fine
You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink.
No you can’t force ideas on someone. I thought I was more describing the leading to water part
I was being pithy for entertainment purposes, mostly my own. I apologize if I offended or created a misunderstanding.
Not offended, just thought I had worded my comment in a way that confused. Thank you