I mean… The Enterprise is always doing questionable things with that deflector dish.
My head cannon says the Enterprise explored a wormhole to the Farscape universe, did a reverse gravaton beam on Moya, then immediately went back through the wormhole… And that’s how Moya got pregnant.
Would also explain why all starships in the federation, after that point, were female (no dangly deflector)
The sad thing is you’re technically correct only because it’s people with a similar mindset to you on the matter that perpetuate this idea.