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      Just a friendly suggestion… add the word “ally” to it or you may get a lot of unsolicited propositions.

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            I was mainly posting to make my insecurities into a funny. That is still gratifying to read. Thank you. I appreciate that there are people here who are just happy to be kind to others. We all need it sometimes.

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        I would but I feel it would ruin the aesthetic.

        Plus I don’t want people to think I’m straight right off the bat. Seems counterproductive. I want people to think I’m gay so they treat me the way they would treat a gay person.

        So I can fuck them up for being homophobic.

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          If you hang out with any LGBT+ people, the bigots always assume you are LGBT+, in case you didn’t know. Ally’s get treated just as bad. Everything about the way bigots work is a “guilty by association” mindset.

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            Oh I’m aware. It’s why I’ve become so aggressive against homophobes.

            Too many of my friends have dealt with the bigotry and I’m not having it anymore.