Hello,

I’m trying to send something to my gf’s friend (~50gb)

I tried creating my own torrent and was able to dl it on another device, but on her machine it stayed at 0% and wouldn’t let me connect to seed

Is FTP a good option? I set up a proxmox server last night but I don’t really know what I’m doing yet

Any guidance greatly appreciated, thanks.

  • Kissaki@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3 months ago

    There are website services where you both stay online and transfer directly.

    There could be direct peer to peer transfer tools that are more robust.

    If you want to go through a file transfer/hoster

    There’s some more, those are the top two in my bookmarks.

    You’d do good of encrypting/7z-passwording if you don’t want others to see the content, just to make sure not to have to trust the hoster.

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    3 months ago

    Qtox should work? It’s not a very good chat software and a bit cumbersome, but it allows direct file transfers.

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    3 months ago

    Easiest and most secure way? Mail (or hand deliver) a flash drive. That’s how they transfer data between super computers and data centers. (AWS even has dedicated trucks to do it)

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    3 months ago

    Maybe check out Tailscale. It’s mainly a mesh VPN for your own devices, but they have a lot of options included so you can share stuff with other people.

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      3 months ago

      I’ve set up tailscale in the past week and fallen in love with the ease of use. So, this has my vote too. But, if i was doing this, i would chop the file into, say, 500mb parts using 7z or WinZip and then transfer it through SCP (WinSCP if using windows) over tailscale IPs.

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    3 months ago

    Is it a single 50 gig file ? If not telegram has decent speed and can handle 2 gig files pretty well .

  • u/lukmly013 💾 (lemmy.sdf.org)@lemmy.sdf.org
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    3 months ago

    My lazy way is NGINX with autoindex.

    If it’s to go over untrusted network (e.g.: internet, school network) I use SSH for port forwarding. Lazy encryption.

    Something like this works just fine:

    worker_processes 1;
    daemon off;
    events {
    }
    http {
            default_type application/octet-stream;
            server {
                    root /storage/emulated/0/sharedfile;
                    listen 127.0.0.1:30000;
                    location / {
                          autoindex on;
                    }
            }
    
    }
    

    sharedfile is a directory with the files.
    On remote machine if I am not mistaken

    ssh -L 127.0.0.1:8080:127.0.0.1:30000 username@host
    

    Then just access it in web browser on 127.0.0.1:8080 or whatever port you chose.
    In PuTTY you can find this under “Tunnels”.

    Of course, you need to have SSH server set up as well.

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    3 months ago

    Just to throw another option into the mix:

    Maybe create a VPN connection with wireguard, then you can just transfer them however you’d do it in a local network? Tailscale would be an easy solution to achieve this.