• Diurnambule@jlai.lu
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      5 months ago

      You right his parents have to be punished. They didn’t teach him how to respect other properly.

          • KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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            5 months ago

            Not when you ruin someone else’s life.

            we are literally talking about an image that was made out of thin air, the description of “ruining someones life” is fucking absurd considering the very real alternative in this case.

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            5 months ago

            You need to pick an age as the “magical day” anyway. Not really a good argument

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                5 months ago

                The human mind doesn’t even really fully mature until your mid 20s. A 15 year old still has a good full decade until full maturity, and they are notorious for making impulsive decisions without realizing the consequences of their actions.

                What he did was wrong and he deserves punishment, but ruining his life too for being a dumb teenager does nothing for the unimaginable harm caused to this girl, it just makes more victims.

                I don’t know what the right answer is, but I can tell you the wrong answer is to ruin a teenagers life over a stupid act when that isn’t going to solve anything.

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                    5 months ago

                    retributive justice doesn’t work.

                    one of the main reasons people try to treat minors differently than adults is because they recognize that retributive justice is literally giving up on the person and doing the easiest thing for society to deal with them.

                    especially in cases that involve minors there’s a push for restorative, transformational and participatory justice models because they don’t give up and fall back on treating the person like an animal.

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                    5 months ago

                    A kid was arrested, but released pending further investigation, so I’m hard pressed to believe there is no punishment for this. But we’re talking about teenagers here, the fact that he could be punished is there, but was not given serious consideration if any at all…because he isn’t a fully mature adult. So what would a more serious punishment do?

                    This is something probably solved with education rather than more punishment.

    • KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      5 months ago

      I don’t think maturity is an explicit thing in a binary form, i would be ok with the presumption that the age of 18 provides a general expected range of maturity between individuals, it’s when you start to develop your world view and really pick up on the smaller things in life and how they work together to make a functional system.

      I think the idea of putting a “line” on it, is wrong, i think it’s better to describe it “this is generally what you expect from this subset”