I’m a 54-year-old man, recently separated from my wife of 31 years - just earlier this month. Honestly, I’m already feeling bored and lonely, so I’ve been considering trying out dating apps (I’ve never used one before). However, my sons (30 and 28) tell me it’s a waste of time and possibly even a scam, and I’ve seen similar opinions online. So I’m not sure what to think.

  • bigpEE@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    They’re an excellent way to expose yourself to way more people than you would in real life. But the people who’ve been using them for a long time tend to have a warped mindset of very high standards. If they drop the person they’re currently seeing they can line up another date within a week. That’s been my experience in the 20s demographic, but maybe the older crowd is different