This happened to me irl. They ask me to mess a bit with tarot cards and as they’re leaving they tell me “You’d go think about stuff before go you out dating. All men are predators”. When I ask them that sounds incredibly prejudiced they just respond with “It’s in the studies”. I was perfectly fine when feminism meant egalitarianism but thats is oughtright stupid vitriol that’s gonna help noone.

  • -☆-@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 days ago

    And women are nervous in dating because if they trust the wrong person, they might get raped and murdered. Unfortunately, in the reality we live in, dating can’t really be carefree. With more systemic issues addressed, perhaps it can be.

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      1 day ago

      Go ahead and read again what I wrote. I haven’t killed anyone, don’t plan to, don’t want to, and can’t control anyone who does.

      • fushuan [he/him]@piefed.blahaj.zone
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        Sure, but they don’t know, people lie. If we put in a balance your feeling being hurt vs them being murdered and/or raped, I’d say that unfortunately it’s better for now for you to feel bad.