• JackbyDev@programming.dev
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    7
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    1 day ago

    If you’re legitimately worried about someone asking you that exact question (which is sort of an odd phrasing, I don’t think it would happen often) and you’re worried it would be done by people who don’t know you well, just talk about a hobby or something.

    • What type of guy are you?
    • For work I do blah, for play I do blah, and I’m really into hobby.
    • Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      arrow-down
      10
      ·
      1 day ago

      Or, and hear me out, we could just not assume that some saying they are nice is a cunt because social media turned into it a clickable buzzword? Judge people by their actions, not whatever dogshit you were told was a red flag by some sad pathetic loser who does nothing all day but hate everything and anyone.

      “Hes a nice guy!” is something people often say about others. Its not a trick, its a not a trap, and its not code for cunt. If someone is a cunt, just call them a cunt. Its easy.

      • HeuristicAlgorithm9@feddit.uk
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        6
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        14 hours ago

        Don’t worry I don’t think you’re a cunt because you describe yourself as nice. It’s because you’re acting like a cunt.

        • Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          arrow-down
          4
          ·
          14 hours ago

          Yes, judging people by their actions instead of forcing social media buzzword bullshit on them, totally makes me a cunt… Good luck on getting those worthless up arrows for adding nothing to conversation.

          • HeuristicAlgorithm9@feddit.uk
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            3
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            edit-2
            13 hours ago

            Am I not judging you based on your actions? You overtly insult anyone who disagrees with you. You avoid any opportunity to have a rational argument in good faith by making obvious logical fallacies and not responding to the actual points being made.

            I suspect it’s caused by various insecurities, and you’re projecting heavily. Case in point: I don’t give a fuck about up arrows, but you assume that’s the reason why I’m commenting. So that assumption is likely because you care about getting them. And since you fail to get them, rather than admit when you’re wrong you lash out.

            It’s really funny, because the best and easiest way to win this argument over me is to now admit you were wrong. And I can can explicitly state that. And still I know you won’t do it.