I just think they look so good, better than men where I live. And I mean the facial aesthetics and a few other things. I don’t mean actors, but men I see in street polls or in english language learning apps, or in homemade porn. There are a lot of things I could say here, but I just want to say that I don’t think it’s good for me and I’m trying to get rid of it.

  • Gorilladrums@lemmy.world
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    There’s no use in fighting it. You like what you like, and that’s okay. There’s nothing wrong with having preferences. It only becomes problematic when your reasons for liking them are ideologically motivated because that hints at a deeper issue, otherwise you’re free to like whoever you find attractive for any reason.

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    10 hours ago

    What’s wrong with that? I also think that women of some ethnicities are on average significantly better looking than women of other ethnicities, but I don’t think that has any moral implications - it’s no different from the fact that I think brunette women are on average significant better looking than blonde women.

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    8 hours ago

    I was gonna suggest going on PeopleofWalmart but apparently that site is gone. I guess you could try looking up rednecks, sovereign citizens, 2A enthusiasts, Jan 6th traitors, etc. Their personalities should break you of the fetish if not also their looks.