If you still desired others it wasn’t #truelove IMHO but I understand this has become controversial in some circles.

  • Elextra@literature.cafe
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    3 days ago

    I don’t subscribe to this. I am happily married to my husband but understand love is very dynamic and monogamy isn’t for everyone. There’s also polyamory, asexuals, etc.

    On a more personal level, I don’t desire anyone else and neither does my husband but we have a very healthy relationship with no jealousy. We are both secure and discuss attractability of others we sometimes find in passing (I.e. we witnessed a guy full sprint laps around us while on vacation walking around botanical gardens. He was a beast). If someone good looking, charismatic, or intelligent, that is just our perception of them.