• mmhmm@lemmy.ml
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    19 天前

    be a feminist. all tasks are our tasks. my partner and I have our own strengths. we try and lean into those.

    If you need to start somewhere create a chore sheet, sign and date when you do them. you quickly have a record of imbalances like who is doing more than their share of the dishes

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      19 天前

      lol. sorry but for some reason this thing with agile for software development and scoring user stories. could be interesting for a family with bidding on points for tasks.

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        19 天前

        it could be like that, fam. or the wheel of doom, you spin, you get what you get and you don’t throw a fit!

    • GooseGang [she/her]@beehaw.orgOP
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      18 天前

      Ah making the chart is a chore of itself but it’s a good idea I’m starting to do (and adding time is especially important)