Hey all. I’m here to tell you about my experience getting “shadow-banned” on my 8-year-old Reddit account. Short alike others: https://lemmy.today/post/49087735, https://lemmy.today/post/48784920, https://lemmy.today/post/47876190, https://lemmy.today/post/47779751
Almost smart
I basically stopped using Reddit 3 year ago around the whole “Reddit’s killing Thirdparty APPS” but, got sucked back in to a niche health/lookmaxing style Sub that I helped Mod for 10 months.
The day of
About a week ago I’m making posts, commenting, Moding, etc, and interactions stop working strangely lets of red error popups, and the “Important Information About Your Reddit Account” notification, saying “after detecting some technical irregularities on your USER_NAME account, we took the extra precaution of locking your account. To unlock your account, reset your password now.”
Figuring it out
So, I reset it via my email and log back in. Worried, but it seem top be working… then a few hours later the same red banner errors when I try to interact with users. So, I view my account on a logged out browser and it says “account suspended”
What to-do?
After filling out both https://www.reddit.com/appeal & https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/requests/new?ticket_form_id=360000600232 I waited for an email, Reddit notification… And got nothing about it.
Now, the current non-signed in status is “This account has been banned” & all posts/comments are removed (Mods can still see them as from u/deleted & manually approve them)
When signed in:
- No banner on my account or reason for being banned.
- All public interactions fail with a Red popup error, and my entire history of posts and comments says “Sorry, this post was removed by Reddit’s filters.” or “Removed by Reddit”
Why?
What did I do wrong? Only reddit knows that! We can speculate, but, there is no point really. Reddit’s TOS allows them to!
How I feel about it
I feel disrespected, gaslit, lied to, and discriminated against. Sad, angry, depressed, etc… :( You all know the stages of grief.
Reddit pretending there’s a technical issue to me, but banning me without even saying it, and removing all my past posts & comments is very disheartening. From my personal experience, Reddit has proven to be largely a waste of time, and very much uninvestable.
Moving forward
Well, I’m not gonna make another Reddit account just for the same thing to happen, that would be me participating in (as I see it) a toxic relationship. I still get other random Reddit notifications (modmail, streak messages, etc) I can’t do anything with. It’s like Reddit is teasing me now. This guy has a good point https://lemmy.today/post/47176601/22123471
A little help?
Anyway, I know there is a lot of hate for conservative/Christian views around here, so any TIPS on where to find a ‘safe space’ to be me & express my self, and how to limit/block toxicity would be appreciated.
Maybe this is a sign from God, that my time is better offline.


Seem peoples presumptions about the terms conservatism & Christian are all over the place. Getting thrown in the "97% correlation between being a Nazi trash person and being a “conservative Christian” is trying.
I’d say it’s far more about the conservative descriptor than the Christian one.
Personally, I’d much rather have a Christian friend who aligned with my values of celebrating diversity, defending personal liberty, and making the economy work for everyone instead of a select few over an atheist who constantly cries about “wokeness” and “cancel culture.”
People who identify as conservative Christians are frequently white nationalists who are more concerned with which genitals are in what bathroom or kicking brown people out of the country than preventing people from freezing to death on the street. If that’s not you, wonderful; but at least in the US you are indeed a rare breed.
I’m curious: what value does conservatism as a concept hold for you?
I look at conservatism as a concept that preserves the experiments that worked, and a necessary counterbalance to progressivism. Obviously, the ideal is a balance between them.
As an example, I think the separation of genders in such things as changing rooms, sports, & jails are all valuable traditions learn by hard lessons of those you come before us, and that we throw those out at are own peril. Basically conservatism = traditionalism in my mind. Who are we to be so bold as to think we are smarter than those you came before us? Or that the ‘old rules no longer apply to our lives’?
I know you didn’t come here for a debate, so I’ll keep my response as brief as possible.
You ask who we are to say that the “old rules no longer apply to our lives?” We’re the ones who have to live under the rules; why should we be beholden to the desires of a bunch of dead guys?
The women who fought for their right to vote, the strikers who brought us weekends and paid time off, the slaves who escaped their bondage, and the people who were driven out of their homelands by religious persecution all decided that the old rules were oppressive and in service of an elite who didn’t have their best interest at heart.
Take this passage from Mark 2 for example:
It illustrates the point that the rules are here for us, and that we should really think about the implications of what we are restricting.
The Republican brand of Christianity seems to be the opposite of everything that Jesus preached. From Matthew 25:
The GOP has been cutting food aid (EBT) to desperate families, medical services to the poor and elderly (Medicare & Medicaid), splitting up families of people who came here to seek asylum (ICE), starting unjustified wars (Iraq & Iran), demanding schools give Christians special treatment (display religious texts, fund private Christian schools with public school money), and funnelling money to the very richest people in society for fifty years (the US has the highest wealth inequality of any country in the developed world)… all wearing the Christian religion as their mantle. That’s why people hear “Christian Conservative” and think about all of this reactionary nonsense. The Christian Nationalist movement is about power, not tradition. Rather than having a pluralistic society, the Christian Nationalist thinks that they should get the sole right to decide how things are done.
Take the bathrooms that you mentioned: why is this a thing that people want the government involved in? Why should the government be able to tell you who can use the bathroom in your business? Shouldn’t that be up to the business owner? Isn’t that the “conservative” solution?
The rules are here to serve us; therefore, there’s no better set of people to determine what those rules should be. Conservatism is about maintenance of the status quo, and most people in the country are unhappy with the status quo. Isn’t that a good enough reason to change it, and to move away from an elite who doesn’t have our best interests at heart?
I get the sentiment, you make many correct points that I can not disagree with! There are two sides to every coin, and they must work to balance us. Your right that we must move forward in trust, doing away with Sins of the past and being reborn.
If you would read https://lemmy.today/post/49597645/23011160
About The GOP paragraph: Although I know it’s a largely corrupted party, I agree that the federal government should not be into health-care, education or charity (in our own lands). As far as ICE, we need a border & to punish these who break our laws to maintain our nation, you can say our current policies are bad. But, I feel ICE guys are getting a lot of hate for doing what politicians we the people elected have hired them to do. I know our the USA Fascist & Socialism system is corrupt, I pray we start seeking first the kingdom of God, rather than Money!
I’m not an Anarchist, or a libertarian, so no, and that’s not clearly not the “conservative” solution. If you read my above linked comment, you can understand why I think government must regulate morality. I also think it’s the duty of the strong (men) to protect the weak (women/children), and part of what makes a gentleman vs a beast.
Again, I basically have to agree. Maybe “Christian nationalist” is a better fitting term to encapsulate my views! Anyway, I don’t find wearing around such metaphorical badges helpful. Free to address & insult me as you will :)
People seem to be using the Downvote as an “I disagree” button, which is a basic misapplication IMO https://www.reddit.com/r/storyofseasons/comments/l59iya/reminder_that_the_downvote_button_is_not_an_i/
If you a Christian Nationalist then you can fuck right off then.
Get lost, prick.
Yeah they’re a Nazi and they will probably get banned soon.
Nazis don’t last long on Lemmy. Enjoy your brief trolling stint.
That’s a progressive perspective on conservatism, and expressing it as such places you further Left than most Democrats in office.
America’s self-described “Conservatives” are mostly christian nationalists who don’t seek to conserve key American traditions like multiculturalism, but rather to impose their moral ideals on those who they see as “degenerates” in society.
This is obvious when you consider that “Conservatives” are more offended that trans people like myself might use a public restroom than the fact that ICE is running concentration camps and separating families from their children.
Actually Conservative Christians are anti-Capitalists that care most about serving the needy and destitute. The self-proclaimed christians who voted a pedophile into office do not seek to conserve tradition, merely to preserve their own social status.
Seems people have a different idea on the meaning of the terms then I do. It’s interesting, because, by definition, I am inspiring Christian & and nationalist. And yes, I think the government must regulate morality, aka the “impose their moral ideals on those who they see as “degenerates” in society” part. Why not make rape, incest, theft, murder, domestic abuse, human sacrifices, etc, legal? Because that immoral & would degrade society!
I’m inspiring to this ideal more, but, don’t see capitalism of inherently evil, like a gun or a drug.
I believe you not making a good faith statement there, and instead trying to straw man the perspective you disagree with because your emotional about this and stereotyping people is the easy way out of self reflection. Why the statement is more or less true, I think your heart posture is one of anger, rather than empathy. (I know that’s a very judgy statement, and it could be wrong.)
Literal.
Concentration.
Camps.
For children.
capitalism isnt a neutral tool though, it’s a system of social relations that jesus explicitly condemned
walking contradiction; nationalism is idolatry. Whatever religion you follow is not christianity.
This is true. I am not a theist, but I think this is one of those things were the JW view of “we are just passing though and are not interested in worldly things” makes sense. They are still harmful overall.
The whole nationalist christian (nat-c) thing is so theologically twisted its crazy anyone takes it seriously. Tho a big part of the faith is to train oneself to do these mental backflips and apologia, so I guess.
Christians have been doing mental gymnastics to reconcile worshiping Jesus and empire ever since Constantine made Christianity the state religion. Prior to that they’d be refusing military service/wars, holding property in common and refusing to worship the state/emperor. now pretty much every ‘christian’ is the opposite on all fronts.
Not to mention to keep themselves in line with Johnny Comelate Paul. In a way they could be called Paulians.
You supported DOGE and hated DEI in your one relavant post here before you went inactive. I’m sure if you the conservative “christian” with a looksmaxxing obession were brave enough to share their reddit username that got banned we’d find a loud and proud MAGA chud. A nazi. Enjoy hell.
Wow, you really get exercise from jumping from stereotyping people.