• Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.ee
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    8 months ago

    It’s less just because they’re communists and more because the ruling class are all still traumatized from that time Castro nearly got us all killed

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      8 months ago

      I like this idea of trauma being the driving force, although I would argue wording is relevant here and lean toward the phrase “pearl-clutching” myself.

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        8 months ago

        Porqué no las dos?

        People are complicated things capable of many motivations for single actions and yet also single motivations behind many actions.

        I’m just pointing out that we do need to consider more that the current ruling generation has significant mental health hangups that their own intolerance of such issues has seen fit to attempt to impose on us as generational trauma.

        We need to understand more that ours isn’t a movement to just make things better, it’s to break the cycle before it makes things even worse, and then to build something better.

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          8 months ago

          Because the idea of trauma implies an unearned sense of victimhood to a very small group of elites that doesn’t make a lot of sense in this historical or international context.

          Cuba agreeing to Russian missile sites didn’t seem to scar any other nearby countries for two generations.

          I don’t see why we should bestow the Americans with a special sense of victimhood.

          I do agree that anybody of an older generation probably has more mental hangups than the younger generation, and I think the younger generation is breaking that cycle by going to therapy while the older generation refuses to acknowledge or take responsibility for their mental health even though they have the capacity and resources to.

          Empathy is helpful to a point, but you have to recognize that point.

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            8 months ago

            “didn’t seem to scar any other countries nearby for two generations”

            Because the doom bringing missiles weren’t pointed at them.

            I will naturally be less traumatized witnessing a hostage situation than the actual person who has a gun pointed at their head will be, that does not negate their being traumatized.

            Also, small ruling elite, there’s over 70 million of them at present. You keep trying to ignore the whole “generational experience” part of what I’m describing.

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              8 months ago

              You make too many tenuous subjective assumptions to address directly with too many tractable goal posts to avoid.

              I specifically addressed your “generational experience” concern.

              "I do agree that anybody of an older generation probably has more mental hangups than the younger generation and I think the younger generation is breaking that cycle by going to therapy while the older generation refuses to acknowledge or take responsibility for their mental health even though they have the capacity and resources to.

              Empathy is helpful to a point, but you have to recognize that point."

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        8 months ago

        Keep in mind that the establishment were at the oldest teenagers at the time of the crisis

        The Turko-Cuban missile crisis was the kind of formative early years trauma to the ruling generation what 9/11 and the great recession have proven to be for the upcoming generation, even worse because it really nearly was the end of the world at several points.

        These people didn’t know a day without the sword of Damocles over theirs and everyone else’s heads for almost 50 years, and to them Cuba is the locus of all of that, especially since China managed to bungle things so spectacularly that Vietnam and the US are technically on “now play nice” terms now.

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          8 months ago

          So you are saying that the reason they havent lift the sanctions is because they were traumatized by the “red scare” and the cold war as teenagers? Because the cuban missile crisis lasted less than a month.

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            9/11 lasted less than 2 hours. From first impact to last fall.

            I can still remember most every detail of that day.

            Mass trauma is like that.

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              The threat of a tragedy is not the same as the tragedy itself. Also, that part of my comment was in response to Phlubba stating that the US was threatened by Cuba for 50 years. That is not true. I dont dismiss or minimize the trauma that the cold war might have caused on some people, but Cuba’s role in it is tiny when compared to that of the US and URSS. Using it to justify 80 years of embargo is absurd.