Nonono, be more specific. If the cops do it, then yes. If other grand/mass surveillance things do this, then yes.
But this could just as easily be taken as “You had your phone with you and didn’t record during the time of the crime? Sucks to be you!”
Well, we’re doing both so it’s okay.
/s
It IS really hard to understand what someone is going through if you’ve never been in that position yourself, and even then it’s hard.
On the other hand: You never know when to attribute a behavior from someone to malice. And it’s also very easy to stop working on oneself when not pressured in doing so, especially for addicts.
So yeah, a bit of banter is necessary.