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  • Michael@slrpnk.nettoGames@lemmy.worldGaming Pet Peeves
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    3 months ago

    Yeah, really. Like a lot of games refuse to let me bind “1” through “0”, “[”, “]”, “;”, “'”, “,”, “.”, “/”, ""

    Like c’mon. I need those keys. It’s feels like laziness and is sometimes the result of a console-focused development cycle (with PC as an afterthought). They add all the major keys, but those special characters? Nah.




  • Michael@slrpnk.nettoGames@lemmy.worldGaming Pet Peeves
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    3 months ago

    I’m left-handed and while key rebinding has gotten better in some ways, it has recently regressed in gaming in the past few years.

    I make custom layouts for every game I play. IJKL to move, Semicolon to sprint, Quote to crouch, etc. I find many games where “I” is hard-bound to inventory, some bindings overlap keys I’ve bound, some keys are unable to rebound entirely in-game, some keybindings menus require jank to actually work, and so forth.

    It’s very frustrating. I can only imagine what people with physical disabilities and assistive devices deal with if it’s this hard for me.



  • I’m sorry that it all happened that way. I believe in most spaces, your comment would’ve just been removed if it was seen as uncivil - if any action was taken at all. If you hit the vertical … on comments or look at the footer, you will notice that moderation logs are public here on the fediverse which brings a greater level of accountability to moderators and users alike.

    Truly, I hope you have a good time here and I look forward to seeing you around!




  • Yeah, it’s pretty crazy what can happen.

    Related, as a young child, I had very severe breathing problems - but no wheezing. Turns out I have an atypical presentation of asthma (like cough-variant asthma or silent asthma) and I was nearly dying for over a year before the doctor referred me to an asthma and allergy specialist and admitted they couldn’t help me to my parents.

    I get it, going through all that education, training, and practice is worthy of recognition, but the best doctor knows their limits and passes you along to someone who is equipped and specialized.

    I think that it’s great that you posted here and I hope things get better for you!


  • Teaching self-acceptance is generally fine, but I feel like in this case, this is a cop-out and the person isn’t able to provide the help and support you require.

    I’ve run into this issue myself with my adult autism diagnosis - providers refused to provide a diagnosis or provide me a pathway to receive an evaluation from somebody qualified to do so. Even when I needed accommodations for college, they just sat silent, refused to address my concerns, and quickly changed subjects.

    Turns out I do have autism, and they were just barriers to me accessing diagnosis and all the benefits that come with it. I likely have ADHD as well, but none of these providers gave a shit. They just focused on my anxiety and tried to reason me out of my state, focused on having me changing my behaviors and reactions (mask even harder), gaslit me into accepting that I’m causing people to traumatize me and letting myself be traumatized, and so forth. I was already high-masking, but I desperately needed supports and they had nothing to offer. They acted as if my high-masking appearance was my baseline and the anxiety was the inhibitor - which cause me an immense amount of harm. They also refused to address my significant trauma history and PTSD.

    Find someone else who is qualified in ADHD and don’t get fucked around like I did.




  • I was going to specifically argue this point to them, thank you.

    Personally, I believe that everybody is neurodivergent and that the concept that anybody is neurotypical is extremely harmful. Difference is normal, but some people need extra help and support. That’s where the diagnosis comes in, with very specific criteria and identification of support needs and impairment levels.

    I believe that one can resonate with autistic traits validly and that is likely extremely desirable to accept and support, but I don’t believe that everybody is autistic. I believe that one can easily say they are “neurodivergent with autistic traits” and that be seen as valid. I believe the level of impairment is what speaks to the specific differences found in autism, in addition to meeting the specific diagnostic criteria (which is extremely accurate - as evidenced by many studies, meta-analyses, and so forth).

    I’m pretty sure that less than 1% of people worldwide are autistic. Level 0 does not exist in official diagnostic criteria, and clinically means you do not have autism.