I see where you’re coming from but I found enough value in the first 7 days to convince me to stay on

Yeah in my eyes it’s worth the €3 a month but can see why you’d think that

Not sure why you think that? Developer said he keeps everything private and would never sell data on

Yeah you can set it to however many people you want. I only have it as a few close relationships personally, and yeah you can set it up for people you haven’t contacted in a long time. I’d recommend trying it whilst the developer has made it free to try

Of course! Hope it helps you like it did me

Yeah I feel like the problem a lot of the time, for people like us, is that we think we have to have a full conversation which creates friction. This app helped me to realise all it takes is something small even a gif lol

Yeah never thought of that! Kinly could be for the reminders and intervals part, I’ll have to try it out, thanks

Yeah that’s great and I used to do similar as they’d often reach out to me during that time as well. I also think its useful for people to find tools that help them all year round if they wanted to reach out more than just once a year

I’m still trying to work on this as well. I’ve found small messages is all it takes, but in my head I used to always feel like I had to do a long catch-up which just put me off. I know a lot of people like us struggle with this so thought I’d share whats worked for me

It’s called Kinly Connect. It’s just a little reminder app for relationships. I add a few contacts and it tells me when I haven’t talked to them in a while, and allows me to add notes/reminders to them. Helps with the out of sight out of mind thing without overwhelming me.