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    Yeah. They don’t sell it with a better engine because it would embarrrass more expensive cars, kinda like the Porsche boxster/cayman (which whispers handle better than the 911).

    Old Miatas were like that too :(. Though I don’t know what Mazda’s excuse is these days, as the Miata is their top sports car?









  • How about community taxonomy?

    Say there’s a gaming community.

    Then there’s a PC gaming community, then a MMO game community, and there’s communities for individual games subdivided into that.

    So if you’re in /c/PCgaming, posts in /c/GuildWars will (by default) show up in your feed.

    If you are in /c/GuildWars, you (by default) get the hyper focus, and exposure from your post filtering up to more general tiers.

    But this sharing is toggleable too. For example, you could choose to only float it up to the “MMO” level without drawing in the /c/gaming crowd

    And this structure kinda naturally fits underlying database structures anyway.


    Reddit could not evolve like this, but now that we kinda know what niches exist, that could be constructed from scratch and maintained.









  • I just wish I could systematically prevent myself from making any mistake lol, or like anyone from making the first mistake.

    …I guess we theoretically could, via a Lemmy or Piefed PR, heh.

    As an example, we could implement an opt-in feature that pops-up community rules before one is allowed to post. Kinda like Discord, but less obnoxious.

    That’s one reason why I like this place. If something about the site’s UX design in problematic, there’s somewhere to go to get it improved. With any corporate social media, your only assurance is that it will get worse with time.



  • I’m not trying to grandstand. My issue is with these presumptions:

    like if the mods want to auto-ban everyone who doesn’t personally verify with them their womanhood, that’s their business. but expecting people to self-police their gender is a dumb expectation.

    They’re not checking you at the door. They aren’t auto banning anyone. They very politely point out the sidebar to a few posters, then request them to stay quiet; that’s the extent of it.

    …If you don’t make an issue of that, it’s not an issue.

    if you want a private exclusive type of space… then make it private and exclusive. that way you can control who views and interacts with the event and even hire security to keep the ‘wrong’ people out.

    But this is unrealistic, as then they wouldn’t get nearly as much participation in the space. It’s a public gathering spot, by choice.


    Again, my specific problem is with commenters that are shown the rules by the mods, yet willingly choose to ignore them.

    Just because you think rules are unrealistic does not give you a right to ignore them once asked. That’s how every community here works. Yet they seem to get tons of posters carrying that bad attitude, with that same line of argument.

    That’s what makes me bristle. Respecting community rules (once known) is basic human civility, and people are perfectly capable of ‘self-policing’ that. I do not like the rejection of that + the policing of others in its place.


  • Wandering in, missing the rule sign, getting corrected, and apologizing is fine. I’ve done it; the mods there couldn’t have been nicer about it. It’s not an ideal system, no, but it works well enough; it’s the mods shouldering that burden more than anything.

    …The problem is when the guys are corrected, yet keep talking anyway. Which I see happen a lot.

    There is no excuse for that.


    Is the best behavior to block any community you don’t or can’t participate in? I personally don’t love that behavior because I like seeing what everyone is discussing in threads, but that’s a reasonable solution.

    I feel extremely mixed about this, yeah. I feel weird even talking about it.

    I personally don’t love that behavior because I like seeing what everyone is discussing in threads, but that’s a reasonable solution.

    The women’s space… doesn’t prohibit lurking? On one hand, the community is public, and I’m curious about the perspective in the discussions. I’m interested in understanding them so I can be a more respectful person myself.

    I upvote their posts so they get more exposure.

    …But I don’t want to violate their privacy either. Blocking is reasonable. Right now, I just upvote them but don’t enter the threads.


    Obviously my current strat is just reading the community before posting (like not commenting negatively about Star Gate getting a new season in the star gate community as an example that happened today lol).

    Read the room, yeah.

    IMO TV fandoms shouldn’t worship their material. Negative discussion is allowed, otherwise the space gets toxic.

    In fact, this kinda happened to one of my personal fandom spaces, /r/thelastairbender: among other things, they idolize ATLA (the original series) like a diety, to the point where anything different (including other material like Korra or the Netflix adaption) is demonized. Deeper stuff like the novels, fanfics or speculative lore is not welcome either.

    That sucks. It’s all too common; the Star Wars fandom (for instance) is notorious for it. And its why some negativity and ‘outsider perspectives’ should be welcomed in such spaces.

    The women’s space is different though. It’s basically a shelter from the shit this group puts up with IRL and online, so being more sensitive makes sense.