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  • Rage? I’m not upset. You seem to be really invested in this though. I was being somewhat flippant in my last comment about the problem likely being you if you’ve somehow been the target of multiple noise complaints or if you’ve somehow known multiple people who would want someone evicted for a basic noise compaint, but this really is coming across as something personal for you.

    The only person who mentioned eviction is you. And OP clearly isn’t calling the cops on their neighbors, otherwise the landlord saying they needed a police report wouldn’t be anywhere as much of a problem.

    If a polite conversation doesn’t work, and a not so polite conversation doesn’t work, and the landlord stepping in doesn’t work, then we’re all adults and can just be increasingly passive agressive.



  • That’s cool, because you willfully misinterpreted OP to start with.

    The obvious implication with what they’re saying is people doing it egregiously.

    “Someone who likes slamming things” doesn’t usually mean people just using their shit reasonably, it’s also not “literally all my neighbors slam things all the time and I have no concept that the cabinets just might be shit in every unit”.

    It’s talking about an outlier.

    There’s more room to interpret “or who plays loud music” as maybe referring to someone doing a one off thing, but that’s borderline taking OP in bad faith.

    There are absolutely people who rant about gnat farts, but if you’ve encountered any significant amount, I’d suggest you’re probably a lot louder than you think you’re being.







  • It’s been more than fice years since I touched it, but it didm’t work too great for me.

    My problem with it is that it requires you to set it all up. The tasks, frequency, chains, point values, etc. I was always second guessing my settings, and it’s very easy to make it too easy.

    You have to want it to work, and not want to metagame the gamification of your todo list. That gets harder when you look at the social aspects of it and see all the people with high scores and such who absolutely are metagaming the system instead of just using it as a habit aid.




  • there is then zero switching cost outside

    Tell me again how you’ve never supported an email service migration. I’m delighted that you haven’t, but it’s obvious.

    Also, I love when people pull a “draw the rest of the owl” with tech they’ve never been up in the guts of.

    Emails also come in standardized formats that can be downloaded and transferred to a new provider, too.

    Oh, you sweet sweet thing. I remember when I believed that technical specs were reliable and things were interoperable because documentation said they were.

    I can still see their tears.


    Maybe it truly is that easy with other providers to switch from one to another, but Outlook, and especially the Exchange backend underneath (both the effectively discontinued self-hosted server version and the Azure-managed Exchange Online) are a special kind of jank.

    There isn’t a special layer or kind of hell for whoever designed it. There isn’t even a specific hell in and of itself.

    Whatever exists after death for the designers of Outlook and Exchange is something so much worse than hell that it’s categorically different from anything able to be conceptualized by humans. We don’t have words to even begin to describe the gulf between comprehendable human thought and what awaits for them.







  • Doesn’t have to be railroading for this sort of thing to occur. You can’t out-plan effectively infinite options, and it’s important to set a baseline of expectations not only of the DM but also of the players.

    Shockingly, some players don’t understand the basic “find a reason for your character to travel with the others” concept unless it’s spelled out to them. There’s also some players that will intentionally play as though they’re allergic to main plot threads, which can be fine if that’s established going in but a pain in the ass if there was an understanding that the DM might be able to prepare shit in advance and not always instantaneously adlib.

    Like don’t agree to Descent to Avernus if you don’t have any intention of going to Avernus.


    Sorry, I get you were probably joking, but I’ve also been in some groups that just didn’t work out because players weren’t straightforward about what they were looking for.




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    I didn’t say anything about self promotion because I don’t usually have issues with that.

    This isn’t self promotion. As I said, this is pure advertisement.

    Self promotion would be someone who is or has been engaging with the community or the wider fediverse at all that does something like “Hey, I did some research on this topic and there’s some things I think people should know about it so I wrote a blog post. Let me know what you think!”

    This also isn’t just out in the open. Why would this person set a different display name on their account unless they wanted to add a small delay in people catching onto this? Instead of a direct “this is the site I run”, their profile has some weird promotional wank about the site and a link. It’s not direct and up front.

    Just… any attempt at bare minimum effort to indicate that this person had any intention of actually engaging with the community instead of dropping a link and running would have made this more palatable.


    Edit: Maybe they did engage some, I can see their profile shows three comments now as well as this post, but I can’t see those. I’ve already blocked them, for better or worse.