• Torvum@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Haha I’m so quirky and don’t have to take any personal responsibility for my actions or self regulation because it’s all my ∆π§adhd§π

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      1 year ago

      Most of the time, these things are not quirky, not positive and some people experience real hardships in their lives because of ADHD.

      It is great that you can take responsibilty for your actions and self-regulate, but some people just can not do it. It just does not work.

      This is really hard to understand for people who can just “do the things”, but you don’t have to make fun of people who just can not do it because their brains do not work this way.

      Also, you can just be nice, don’t comment and just continue scrolling. You don’t have to be mean on the internet and if you really want to say something stupid, maybe think about it for a short moment, realize that you gain absolutly nothing by doing it and, instead spend your time with more positive things.

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      1 year ago

      I mean like isnt getting diagnosed taking responsibility and correcting the issue?

      Unless you want us all to “man up” and have depression, wtf do you mean by this?

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        1 year ago

        That this post is cringe for simplifying a nuanced disability like they have a x_nyan_x blog somewhere. It’s literally the omg so relatable template of “Look at me using a disability as a poster for my personality! Give me attention x3”

        More power to you if you have ADHD and understand the context that your disabilities don’t make you, you’ve always been. You’re just aware that you can be contextualized, but it doesn’t give you an excuse to act on it more.

        I have BP II, doesn’t mean I’m going to go around advertising it like it’s all I am or makes me.

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          Nah but humans are social, so if talking about it is what works for some people, why not just do it then. Sorry you get personally offended by this, but most people ain’t gonna change to fit your idea of society lol