**Preferably non-substance/drug
I’ll share a couple:
4 7 8 breathing
ears underwater
music/audio at slower speed (0.6-0.9)
Let’s hear em. I might want to do a series for various conditions or states so stay tuned and lets crowd-source this shit, enough of the “read my new/old 400pg tome for an introduction”. 🤮 Distill
Comedy. Watch something funny. It’s hard to be anxious and amused at the same time, and at least for me, the amusement wins.
I also have a soft plush that I find soothing but ymmv on that one. I don’t even know why it calms me down, it’s not a childhood toy or anything.
My dogs are probably the best at it. Then weed does a great job dealing with my migraines, so that also helps with anxiety. Music helps on occasion.
Weed.
For short term relief/emotional regulation my counsellor taught me TIPP Temperature - cold water/ice/object to lower heart rate Intense exercise - a few mins of jumping jacks/running on the spot/shaking it off Paced breathing/box breathing Paired muscle relaxation - tense and relax different muscle groups
When I’m anxious I tend to get overactive so the ones that help me most are splashing cold water on my face and the intense exercise.
Anxiety during bedtime or if I have time during the day, ASMR or a well paced peaceful podcast also do the trick.
I think I will try the slower speed music, that sounds interesting.
5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise
Identify:
- 5 things you can see
- 4 things you can feel
- 3 things you can hear
- 2 things you can smell
- 1 thing you can taste
if one of these just ramps up the anxiety, skip that sense and do the others. trying to pick 5 things i can see is. …not useful. …in a panic attack. but closing my eyes and doing the others does help. it took a very long time before someone suggested skipping sight to me, so i share the insight whenever this method is suggested.
Walk. Just get up off your ass and walk. It’s easy and accessible to nearly everyone. Walk. Move your ass through time and space.
March like an automaton if you have to, just walk. You can refine techniques later. Just walk. MOVE. Our minds and brains are not wired to sit on a couch.
Funny how many people say this is how they started to manage their mental health.
It isn’t easy for many though, either or both because of mental or physical reasons. Your comment is a very classic case of “this thing is easy for me and works for me therefore it must be the same for everyone else”.
My anxiety, which has kept me on long-term sick leave for 10+ years, basically shuts down my body and ability to act. The vast majority of the time I’m completely unable to leave my apartment and often even leave the exact spot I’m in. “Just do it” just isn’t possible most of the time, and that isn’t an excuse, laziness or unwillingness. And this is just my specific case, there are as many different and just as real cases as there are people that also find it hard to do whatever thing is hard for them. There is never a “just X” that’s valid for everyone, and it’s idiotic and offensive to think and say so.
Dang I thought you were going to say something about people who are in wheelchairs.
Walking, in general, is a healthy activity that the majority of people would benefit from. I’m sorry your anxiety stops you from this activity, but to call someone idiotic, and their comments offensive, because they suggested someone with anxiety take a walk; is pretty silly.
Don’t get the app, it’s not nearly as good.
You’re walking through a 3D soundscape of rain on a loop.
I can recommend myNoise if you’re looking for an app with quality soundscapes. Unfortunately not free for all of them, but they are all very high quality and they offer an unlock all option.
Stimming (I’m autististic, so it probably doesn’t apply to the general population)
autististic
Repeating patterns, checks out
Well shit. I should proofread my posts. How did I even write this wrong?
Meditation. Close your eyes, breathe normally, relax your body, and calm your mind. I go for a minute to an hour depending on things.
Long-term: facing them and dealing with the source. e.g. I would get nervous about job interviews, but like… as I should, right!? Bc it means that I care about the outcome. Nothing will ever reduce that, except experience doing it over and over, but in the meantime that fight or flight response “helps” to go over everything, e.g. to practice and prepare in all the various ways needed.
Short-term: reading a new/old 400pg tome for an introduction to some random topic… 😜
I recently bought an acupressure mat for this and really like it so far. Many people said it helps them with anxiety and also the tension in muscles caused by it.
Also weighted blankets are recommended by many, but I didn’t like it too much
Progressive meditation. 1 minute a day for a week 5 minutes a day for a week I personally used openmindapp.org- got to the point where I was doing the much longer choices as the weeks progressed.
Drinking wine and beer. In 2 days im going to rehab, this has gotten on for too long 🥲
I see that this is the day, I wish you all the best and know that realizing the issue and doing something about it is a huge step on the way!
You are doing good!
Good luck!
Stick with it and don’t try to leave just because you want to. Stay until you’re actually good to go.
Best of luck! You got this.
Ujjayi breathing
Working out (intensely enough to get your heart rate up)
Wrestling/play fighting/cuddling/snuggling
Petting dogs
Journaling
How is it possible you’re the only one talking about snuggling and cuddling?
Everyone else doing it wrong or something.
I’ll add star gazing. For me that’s an insane relaxant.
Maybe I’m just an expert snuggler 😎
Maybe. Someday in the distant future someone will invent a technology which can validate bold theories like that. Whoever gets that right will be insanely rich.
You’d be able to post on a forum and have a validated rank 5 snuggler badge or something, and everyone would know you’re pro. Go on talk shows, maybe start a product line of high performance pillows.
I could go on, but there’s an insane sandwich here that’s staring me down
