• Kiosade@lemmy.caEnglish
      13·
      4 months ago

      Just don’t try to apply those steps to a problem an SO is having… sometimes they just want to complain and have someone listen.

      • flughoernchen@feddit.orgEnglish
        16·
        4 months ago

        It’s totally valid to ask: “Would you like my advice or would you like me to just listen?” It shows you actually care about the person and that it’s okay if they just want to vent. But you’re still there if they want and need help.

    • MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.netOPEnglish
      32·
      4 months ago
      1. What is the problem?
      2. how is the problem effecting me?
      3. Whats the simplest way to solve the problem?
      1. My interests do not align with “productivity.”
      2. Everything required for survival is a massive drag mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
      3. Stop playing the rigged game Drugs, mostly.