How many of you consider texting an ex that was an amicable breakup to see if they’d be up for a hookup.
Update : I created a group text with all of them and now we are planning a 30 person Orgy at the Marriott in San Francisco.
Lol jk I just woke up and made eggs.
I’mma leave this up since I’m late to the party on this one and there’s already a discussion, but in the future please remember rule #2 and phrase all post titles in the form of a question. This is like Jeopardy! ;)
On that note, if everyone is on board and copacetic, I say go for it and you deserve some mad props for pulling that off.
In my experience, drunk texting an ex is never a good idea, but it takes different strokes to move the world.
Awwww beans, thanks for your flexibility!
From a mod of one community to another- game recognizes game 🏆 thank you for what you do.
No
My ex wife did this last month. But she wasn’t drunk, nor was it just a text. I received a pic of her nude bottom half and the text: open if you want to visit.
I left it on “read”.
Amicable or not, this is just using the other person.
No. Walk it off, drink some water and go to bed. Nothing but evil can come from texting an ex.
Absolutely not
Also drunk and I understand the desire but no
Don’t ever text an ex while drunk.
Thought: “I want to text my ex”
- Is it past 8pm? Do not text.
- Are you drunk? Do not text.
- Jack off, then consider again if you still want to text
- Did you break up with them, leaving mixed feelings? Do not text, you will hurt them
- Did they break up with you? Do not text. You will hurt yourself.
- Was it a mutual break up? Then why do you want to hook up? Someone will get hurt.
Unless you were previously just a fling/FWB, hooking up randomly with a long term ex is the pathway to pain and hurt, for one or both of you. If one of you is still healing, you will just reopen that wound.
Do not drunk text your ex for a hook up.
Stopped at “Thought:” and texted my ex.
The wanking idea works for me, until I text during it.
It’s a bold move cotton, let’s see how it plays out.
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Eww
Who the hell does that?
If you have to impair your brain and thought process to do it, is it really such a good idea?
Never text your ex, block and next…
My wife and I have hooked up with one of her exes, the reason they broke up was over whether or not to have kids, but unless you’re certain that they’ll not be mad don’t do it. Even my amicable exes I’d be annoyed if they only messaged to hook up
Love the edit, OP
The best thing you can do in this situation is masturbate and get it out of your system.
Nah, I’m not attracted to her anymore. We’re friends and it’ll stay at that. There are fundamental reasons for which we broke up and sexual compatibility was one of them. Sex with her was always “alright”. Never mind-blowing.
When I was younger and drunk, I’d text crushes and embarrass myself. None of them cared for me one bit. Since then, I have been drunk once and being rejected is one of the reasons.
Nope. Been there, done that, turned a relatively amicable breakup into a “you’re a piece of shit and don’t ever speak to me again” situation, ruining another friendship in the process. It’s a horrible, horrible idea.
