• MerchantsOfMisery@lemmy.ml
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    Talked a friend out of suicide when COVID first hit and a bunch of people lost their jobs and homes. Now he’s got a pretty sweet work from home job with full benefits and his own place again. Am very happy for him.

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      A friend of mine once said he’d join the army only because he didn’t have anything to live for, but I ended up helping him get a job on the railway and now he’s a train driver, and a good one at that.

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    All of them. Even the ones I would do differently does not mean I am not proud of the effort and character it took to achieve. There are a few times in particular though. All revolve around standing up and doing the right thing, even when it was small. Those after school specials are corney but it does take a lot to go against the crowd and go with what seems right.

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    Honestly, just where I’m at in life. I’ve been pulling myself up by my bootstraps for all my life.

    Grew up in bumfuck poorsville with abusive parents, joined the military, did some cool stuff, left and went to college, bought a house, graduated, sold the house, moved across country, got a job with my degree, and found a solid friendship group who encourage and care for me and vice versa.

    This is all while suffering from an unseen disease that I was finally diagnosed with while in college and have been fighting against ever since.

    I am proud of my achievements and I can really say to myself that I made it, despite everything, I made it.

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    There’s things that I like about myself that I cannot put into words; it’s more a feeling.

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    All these people posting inspirational stories and here I am with my first thought being “Finally saw the northern lights”. Got some decent pictures too.

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      That is on ny bucket list! They look surreal and I would love to experience seeig them.

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      That is a great achievement, and a good looking one as well! One i haven’t yet reached!

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    My brain is not wired to be proud of things (chase the process!).

    But i think achievements that I would put on my resume of life:

    • Smoked for 15 years, quit, now 10+ years, nifty to think of. (i like number go up)
    • Still alive even though i never thought that would happen a lot of times in my life, keep on keeping on
    • I have released a bunch of cool music with other people and it has been a ‘getting out of hand’ hobby also for the past 15+ years
    • Up until now haven’t screwed up the next generation bonus-mini-me, today was their first day in high school, so pretty proud of them (not my achievement though, i just supported along the way).
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    I’ve not been to jail or prison in my life. Someone at one time or another has ran afoul with the law and broken justice system. I on the other hand, haven’t. Granted, there’s things I know that I did that would’ve seen me at least serve a handful of years but I hadn’t been charged and the statue of limitations have long fallen off so I can’t be touched anyways.

    All I’ve ever gotten in my life is just traffic violations that I had to pay for, that’s it. But no prison time for me.

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    I self published two books and am almost ready to do a third. No interest in being a famous author or making millions, just glad to get them out of my head and to know they are just what I intended them to be.

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      There’s a smaller publishing company for small time authors in Florida (if the company is still around) Called witching hour publishing. Their whole schtick is to make publishing cheaper and easier for small time writers. Check it out, might be worth it if you are gonna be prolific.

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        Thanks. I’ve got two young kids and a busy job so not as prolific as I’d like. Maybe a book every 3-4 years, longer if it’s a grand fantasy. My first one was a quarter of a million words in a world I created from scratch, so that took maybe 6 years.

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          You are an inspiration. :)

          Speaking as someone who rarely ever writes because life keeps getting in the way but still hopes to be published someday. Every day it seems that dream gets further and further away… :(

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            All you need to do is start and do what you can when you can. Spare minutes here and there all add up. Don’t get bogged down in minutiae. You’ll get there no matter how long it takes.

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      I saw a comment recently online regarding publishing an indie video game that “nobody played” where people noted you set out to do your goal that very few people ever complete. You published. You’re a winner. You accomplished your feat.

      I had similar stuff with music once in my life. It never went where I or others might have hoped. But we recorded and made albums. We played tons of shows. We had a few fans. We opened for big names we loved. I feel like a winner too.

      I’m not really saying this to reply to you. I’m not even sure you need to hear it. But someone out there does. Don’t let others define what success or winning is. By setting out to accomplish something, and doing it, that’s a winner already.

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      Title of the book? I am looking for some fantasy or sci fi to read.

      Or I guess that might be doxxing yourself…

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        No worries about doxxing as I write under a pseudonym. Let Thy Wisdom Fear: The Gathering by D.T. Wilkinson. It’s on Amazon. There’s also my book of horror shorts called Tales Uncanny, which I just last week noticed a spelling error on the back cover courtesy of my darling wife and I haven’t fixed it yet.

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    Quitting the for-profit sector for political and moral reasons. Not easy and it’s still a struggle, but I keep going.

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    In the past 365 days I have gained almost half a million views and more than 4000 new subscribers on youtube :)

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    About 10 years ago I qualified to enter a state pinball tournament.

    Of 16 qualifying entrants(or who could be bothered to enter), I placed 6th.

    So I see it as, I was the 6th best pinball player in a state of 3million people, for a year. :-)

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      Woot woot! Congrats on that achievement, fellow pinball person! I scrolled this thread just to see if anyone mentioned ye olde silverball and I am not disappointed!

      Own any pins? Top 3 favorite games?

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        One of the tables at this tournament was Walking Dead too!, unforgiving table angle.

        I own no pins at home, except toy size Batman battery operated(Funrise with the ramps)

        My top table is Banzai Run (2 games in 1 ;-), can 7x replay

        I like Attack from Mars(and just a little less Revenge from Mars).

        The original Indy:Pinball Adventure is an all time favourite and one of the first I played(as long as the flippers have enough kick to score jackpots and reach the Path of Adventure).

        If I got a table, it would be Judge Dredd.

        Grew up only playing 80s/90s video arcade machines. Appreciated pinball later, especially the analog aspect and finding out about basic moves like lane-transfers.

        My nonpro-tip: Read the info-card for the word multiball! (c:

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          Good stuff! I enjoy Banzai Run as well, my buddy and I always get a few rounds on that one at our local pinball haunt. That vertical playfield is super cool!

          Never got to clock much time on Indy or Dredd, love AFM though. That’s a game i would consider for my collection someday–that one or Medieval Madness, both are just awesome games. I collect mostly late-70’s/early 80’s solid state games, though i have a particular soft spot for the classic Bally’s and Sterns from that era…

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            I like that era too.

            Aztec(1976) came up recently, and I was very much considering getting it, due to the in-depth detail in these Technology Connections videos. Not sure if the gameplay is any good though.

            Medieval is fun, launching cows and all.

            The original ST:TNG was great also.

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    I know I shouldn’t have even started, but I did, quitting smoking and drinking. It was really, really hard.