• Smoogs@lemmy.world
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    27 days ago

    plans do fail and that can be devastating too.

    But I believe failure and mistakes should be normalized so that it doesn’t become a devastation.

    They might make a mistake and maybe you’re not around and they gotta live in a car for a week or two of or a stint, that is not the end of the world. That can just be a fire lit under the butt. It doesn’t mean fail, it can just be a moment in time between and it doesn’t mean the whole life is a bust.

    Worst is if they let it get to them and decide the world is against all their plans. That’s how you get into a rut and stay there.