• Luke@lemmy.ml
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    4 days ago

    Asking this question in this way (demanding an explanation) frames it so that people will instinctively feel defensive. There’s no shame in being a virgin. You aren’t entitled to an explanation from anyone about why.

  • BlueSquid0741@lemmy.sdf.org
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    There could be lots of reason for not having sex:

    Asexual

    Low sex drive

    Never found a person they could connect with like that

    Being an awful person / falling into the internet incel category

    Different motivations in life that they didn’t feel the need for sex

    Medical problems - this could cover a lot from psychological issues to physical issues

    Fear of pregnancy / failure of birth control

    Strict religion

    Nervous/anxious/shy/awkward personality (like in the film)

    • LowtierComputer@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      It’s been such a long time that I can’t actually remember what happens outside of the waxing scene. Time to watch it again.

  • zqps@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    Because some people apparently prefer to spend their time reading stupid questions online.