I came here around the time the rif app shut down, and the general vibe I get from this place is much more negative than when I joined. Is Lemmy growing more toxic or is it just my imagination?

  • MyBrainHurts@piefed.ca
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    10 hours ago

    If you’re following them around, that’s not living rent free in someone’s head, that’s just being weird.

    The whole idea of the phrase is the one living rent free is just enjoying their life while the OTHER person obsesses about them.

    If you’re the one doing the stalking, it’s the stalkee that’s living rent free in your head.