Do you consider ghosting people a reasonable way to deal with today’s overwhelming and constant information and notification overload? Or do you find it offensive and unfriendly?

Would you equate it to a person ignoring you irl or is ignoring a text different?

For this post let’s assume the people involved are or were in the past friends, and ghosting is leaving someone on “read” for more than 2 days.

  • kelpie_is_trying@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    I have been feeling a bit brain foggy the last couple days, but if I’m understanding what you’re saying, then I’m just not seeing much of a distinction between the two ideas. Like, the ‘why’ is what, more often than not, chooses the results because the results one wants are what dictates what they choose to do. Another way to say it is that the results you want are the ‘why’ I was talking about, and the results you actually get can only be got by way of whatever ‘why’ led to their becoming, right? I think we might be saying the same thing from only slightly different vantages in the sequence lol