You know, the guy who’s been having that same angry conversation about the same fucking thing he’s been obsessed with for the last 5 years and demands that you take his view while going on long monologues and then immediately interrupting anyone who tries to get a word in edgewise? And then goes into a weeks-long suicidal despair if you try to leave the conversation? Any way to deal with that?

  • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    You could try bring an overactive listener. Ask a lot of questions “What does that mean?” “Can you give examples?” if you time them right, it’ll completely mess up his for when he’s monologuing.

    Or, at the very least, you can have fun trying to see who can ask the stupidest question about Uncle Dave’s obsession.

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      2 months ago

      Or, make it all about you, but only with that person.

      “When that happened to ME…”

      “That reminds me of the time <totally unrelated thing in your life>….”

      “I have a friend who’s an expert in that and HE said….”

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      2 months ago

      Even more fun… Ask random unrelated questions until they break…

      What was the horsepower of a 1971 horsepower?

      Where did the “curiosity killed the cat” come from?

      What is the square root of 144?

      How many moons does the earth have? (this is fun because it’s anywhere from 0 to 1 to 2 to many depending on the definition of moon of which there is no formal definition)