I read some people who vent on their posts or talk about problems they face in life and the replies they get is, no you are the problem, fuck you.
On Reddit, the only thing that is close to this is when women complain about their boyfriends, they got told to leave them, whatever is her complaint about.
Any explanation?
Disclaimer: I am not talking about my own experiences here, but rather what I read in other posts, my observations could be wrong.
People seem to have an allergy to personal responsibility and taking initiative. Perhaps it IS their fault? Or at least, they’re the people in the best position to fix things?
Seconding this. In most situations, the only thing you can change is yourself. If you want to improve things, you’ve got to do the work. Sometimes people think responsibility is the same thing as fault or blame, but, again, most of the time the person able to fix a bad situation won’t be the one who caused it.
yep.
IME people who embrace personal responsibility generally don’t whine/complain that much. those who do so pathologically… absolutely refuse to take responsibility for themselves and angry/frustrated that other people who do it for them.