• captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    7 hours ago

    That’s what really strikes me as well.

    I’ve had an odd life. I’ve struggled with the demons in my head, I’ve buried loved ones, I’ve slept in my car in a Midwestern winter, and I’ve also thrived beyond what many do in lots of my adulthood. So I feel comfortable saying that he needs someone with his best interests in mind in charge of him while he undergoes a few years of therapy. Also he needs fully off social media, traditional media, and to be away from the toxic groups he’s been a part of.

    He’s being tormented by his isolation that he himself created and his ego. He clearly still has a lot of trauma from his father, and a lot of cultural baggage from his country of origin. At the end of the day, this is a man who abandoned his family when he got “trophy wife” rich and abandoned his daughter when she turned out not like he wanted, yet he still posits himself a great family man while trying to maximize number of children rather than trying to spend good time with them or raise them.

    One cannot be happy spending all their time at home alone posting on social media, it doesn’t matter if that home is a spartan apartment, a single family dwelling, an enormous estate, or a genuine castle. This is one of the biggest lessons of the past 20 years