Mine is work and life balance. At least in this stage of my life, I prefer work and life balance. That’s why I’ve accepted a lenient schedule, I leave early when it’s acceptable to, I know that my hard work ultimately is accounting for nothing except to make people who’re not me richer than I’ll ever be.

So it’s like I don’t even see the point in working hard when I know a lot of the time, things will continue to be more or less the same, day in and day out. My position could change if I had a different life and in a different field of work where it would matter. But as it is, I prefer being home more and doing things at my leisure. Especially when I don’t have the commitment of children and currently, a relationship although being in one would kind of be nice though I don’t think there’s anyone out there who’d accept someone into this lifestyle.

But being at home more opens doors for me to pursue anything I want and indulge hobbies whereas if I was continuously doing hard work all of the time, I won’t have even an hour towards them as it would’ve been spent sleeping it away.

What about you?

  • dumples@piefed.social
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    1 hour ago

    The most important thing I have learned is working hard when you see directly benefits. Working hard on your own school work or education is a great lesson because it’s all tied to you. Use that same work ethic at a large company you burn yourself for nothing. Own your own business where additional work directly benefits you is a great idea.

  • FoolsQuartz@lemmynsfw.com
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    As an 18 YO, the first option. A short 3 years later snd i know the second option is the right choice. Maybe I’ll get my energy levels up again one day, but know that the world is rigged against us right now - and ti some extent, collapsing - so hustling likely won’t get you what you’re worth. Take the time to be comfy while things burn

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    5 hours ago

    The older I get the more I tilt towards life. I don’t have to prove anything to myself or anyone else anymore.

  • neidu3@sh.itjust.worksM
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    The latter, no contest. I work to live, not the other way around. Back in the day when I was cash strapped, I’d happily take on as many hours, but now I’m at the stage where I earn “enough” so the monetary threshold for me to get off my ass gets exponentially higher for each extra ounce of effort.

  • Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Work life balance, for sure. I worked my ass off and got blindsided and screwed by two different employers last year. Companies don’t give a shit about technical/support staff, there’s no reason to work hard unless you’re going to get paid for that extra effort.

  • Passerby6497@lemmy.world
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    4 hours ago

    Work/life balance

    I actively avoid getting promoted because management is the next step and fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck that shit. I hate managing my own workload, I’m not dealing with HR shit and keeping track of other people (while still also doing my job…)

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      That being said, stuff like Dilbert has always convinced me that management is easier than the work below it 100% of the time. Do you think there’s any short course you coukd take that would make the process of management more clear to you?

  • abc@feddit.uk
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    work/life balance! I have visibility of more stressful responsibilities of colleagues a few rungs more senior and think I would very happily progress to a certain point but not beyond, and live my life without the trouble.