Is it as many people describe? Do you have an easy or difficult time with it?

  • Cantaloupe877@lemmy.worldOP
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    8 hours ago

    Had a few attempts at it myself, didn’t end very well. It’s a painful experience, and it lingers too. You usually never get texts first, and that’s simply because in order for that to happen, you gotta stand out from a huge crowd of guys. It forces you to roll the dice yourself and initiate, which is terrifying.

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        8 hours ago

        It hurts bad, and for a very long too. it’s a feeling I find quite difficult to describe, like a nauseous feeling, the worst I had ever felt was before high school ended for me and I managed to bomb a perfectly fine platonic relationship. The regret afterward lingered for years and years. I had lost the confidence to attempt again.