It got to a point where I was like, damn do I have to worry about this dude coming after me at some point? He was in the army and the got together at 18. I don’t know how much he knew about me but with the tension between them our relationship was quickly becoming a liability. He had firearms, I didn’t. She also only had male friends, many of whom were clearly in love with her and pining for her affection, so more men who were against me.

Oh sh… This was really dangerous.

Apparently he was constantly cheating on her but IDK, so much of the story was iffy. For no on my rule is I’m open to dating a divorcee but only after the divorce has been finalized for over a year. Im not going through that shit again

I’m glad for you that it didn’t end as badly as it could have been.