It feels like this is very intense here compared to other social media services/protocols.

Why is that?

  • foodandart@lemmy.zip
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    3 days ago

    Oh, spend time on Reddit.

    I was there almost 15 years and it is mind-meltingly toxic compared to lemmy.

    Now I’m on the lemmy.zip instance and tend to lean towards more tech ended stuff, so maybe that’s the difference…

    This site is light-years nicer than Reddit’s been since about 2018.

    I think it’s the lack of rage-bots here, that’s the ticket…

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      17 hours ago

      My experience of reddit wasn’t toxic until '22 or so. The first ten years I used it was mostly chill and fun, with the occasionally dramatic event that I had no personal stake in. I mostly was in my local city subreddit and hobby subreddits and a few reading ones.

      But around '22 or so, for me at least, i started getting reported and banned regularly for sexism, racism, and violence. i think because I am not ‘woke’ and the overton window shifted to the point where my views were considered evil or something.

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      I was there almost 15 years and it is mind-meltingly toxic compared to lemmy.

      And yet it’s fristratingly addictive at the same time.

      Sometimes I have to go back to ask a question on r/skyrim mods and I always make the mistake of doing a bit of scrolling. Thankfully I always catch myself 20-30 minutes in, but that’s still time out of my day that I don’t consoder well spent.

      Lemmy has no algorithm to feed that addiction, and I really appreciate it