• sepi@piefed.social
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      4 hours ago

      He could be the guy that raised three kids while the mom dipped. And here you are just asking questions. There’s definitely nothing wrong with the parent who abdicated their responsibility no - must be that husband that’s bad.

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        The guy before me said what she did “was pretty fucked up”; I’m saying there are multiple sides to this story, and we know pretty much none of them. I’m saying that she stayed with him for 20+ years and there’s must’ve been a reason she left when she did.

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          So is the side where she abandons her 14 years old daughter with an abusive father the good one? Never the 8 years old boy.

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          I know what they are suggesting. I’m calling it out. We’ve an article describing how one parent abdicated their responsibility and folks go - without additional info, as one reply says - immediately into blaming the husband.

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            Men are shitty idiots who cause a lot of problems. Source: am man

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              Men can be shitty idiots, but I would just say humans as a whole can be shitty idiots. I’ve known a few from both sides.

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      5 hours ago

      Yeah, a good question to ask. But no way to really know how their relationship is based off of just this article.