• SaneMartigan@aussie.zone
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    1 day ago

    On this note, I lost contact with a huge number of friends when I deleted my facebook ~15 years ago. Similar for livejournal. I handed out my email address and phone number before I walked away, but people have not used those to contact me at all.

    I think people don’t want to put any effort into socialisation. Getting a “feed” is so easy, it feels like you’re connecting with people. You see the comments and likes. But everyone is lonely because they’re not actively interacting, just passively consuming.

    • TheLastOfHisName@lemmy.world
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      2 hours ago

      “I handed out my email address and phone number before I walked away, but people have not used those to contact me at all.”

      Man, do I feel this.

      I experienced the exact same thing when I left Facebook. Exactly 3 people I knew from FB bother to keep in touch. I had one friend tell me. Who will bother when I leave Discord?

      I truly despise what big tech/social media has turned us into: convenience junkies.