No, any rational people that stumbled over there left immediately…

I know, I was one of them.

It wasn’t like that at Lemmy when I first joined, but with every passing day it feels more and more like a Voat,

That doesn’t make any logical sense, even with your caveat.

And no one seems to want to do anything about it.

What do you want someone to “do” about it?

Ban everyone you don’t like?

Make your own instance, do what you want. If people want that, they’ll join.