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Cake day: March 4th, 2024

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  • Yup. Rare, but has happened multiple… oh wait, you said “strongly held.”

    Even then, probably yes, but not a single… hmmm. I would say the closest I’ve come was this person talking about what it’s like to be trans. They said it’s like going into a shoe store, and you just can’t find a shoe that fits. Everyone is telling you you’ve got to buy a shoe that doesn’t fit. Why can’t we be ok with everyone deciding what fits?

    They said it more eloquently than that, but it made the issue click for me. I was never against; I just didn’t understand, and they helped me understand.

    Then much later someone pointed out the scientific data on SRY and that helped the data side of my brain. (The data didn’t change my acceptance, just furthered my understanding. I’m fully onboard and think it’s crazy that everyone else isn’t.)

    Great question! (Mostly I have dropped out of online discussions, straw man arguments are so common it’s exhausting and not worth it.)



  • Shredded latex is the answer, 100%. But only if you are able to remove (or add) the latex as needed. I found I needed about half of what the pillow came with. Maybe a third?

    The result is a pillow that can do it all: prop up your head for reading in bed, become mostly neck support for back sleeping (with a bit of shaping; takes seconds but isn’t automatic,) and ditto for side sleeping but at a slightly higher height.

    Once you get used to a pillow that holds its shape and provides excellent support, all other pillows feel archaic.