I absolutely love these updates.

You think the laws and events in here won’t affect out there?

This is why I email asking if people reject my plans during vacation. No rejection? Thanks! Don’t like what I’m doing? Well here’s the paper trail showing you were informed.

Or doesn’t speak English as a first language. Or wasn’t educated yet and they’re young. Or live in a small town where they once met a single black man a decade ago and are too poor to leave.

Unrelated note, bigots are unimaginative and don’t want to be educated. That’s why many people fall into the category you defined.

Gotta add CSI to that

‘Everyone has a little bit of ADHD’

Everyone is a little bit fat/skinny too. It’s only a problem when it’s so intense that it starts impacting your life negatively.

The best part about being better than others is that you don’t realize it because you’re not the sort to bother comparing

My mom does this.

There’s a certain amount of self depreciation that is acceptable. It’s useful for showing that you aren’t threatening and are self aware.

But if it’s constant, it shows lack of confidence and some self hatred. That can be exhausting.

And it’s wrong. You should think highly of yourself. You’re at least in the top 50% of all people, if not higher.

I don’t know how to answer your question. But it might be that your router doesn’t like being access as a url. I know I had to tell mine to accept login.router.net as itself.

I also just want to highlight:

The router and the host running Caddy, are different machines

This means your credentials are being passed in plain text over your network between caddy and the router. This might be OK to you. But wanted to highlight for anyone else reading.

Crimes are only crimes when they come from the criminal part of the populace. Everything else is sparkling whoopsies.

It gives me a bit of a chubby to see laziness called out. NGL

I’m full of bones. I must be a human person.

It’s a lesson most people eventually learn. I hope you get there sooner than later.

There are a very small number of objectively attractive people. Maybe 5%. Everything after that is subjective. Which is really good for the rest of us.

Yeah I can. You’re a 7/10.

I’m a very insecure woman, … want to know what their “score” is.

You’re an 11/10. A goddess among the plebes. And you need to stop caring about other people’s opinions.

Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one and most of them stink. Once you realize that other people’s judgement is poor, you’ll be much happier.

fun fact:

Not if you were the doctor.

It’s gotten better. Which is to say, it’s almost feature compatible with the old assistant. But you can also give it context. So for example, if you say “remind me X”, you can get it to automatically remind you tomorrow with an alert at 9am, unless you specify a different time. And it’s ok if you screw up the phrasing a bit.

But DIY is infinitely better. If you have the resources.

You should check out this similar question here: https://piefed.blahaj.zone/c/selfhosted/p/650864/stupid-question-but-are-there-free-vps-vm-instances-for-a-jobless-girl-who-wants-t

You’re all fucking liars. Every one of you. You know if someone bent over and showed you their butthole that you’d poke it. You can’t not. It’s a base mammalian instinct.

I was having the same internal struggle. But I’ve landed on

iSP -> ISP router -> my new firewall -> home router

It’s way simpler that way and basically the same benefit.