faultypidgeon@programming.dev to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 14 days agoIt's your first date and she/he asks what type of music you like. What's the guilty pleasure you won't tell her/him about?message-squaremessage-square123fedilinkarrow-up183arrow-down12
arrow-up181arrow-down1message-squareIt's your first date and she/he asks what type of music you like. What's the guilty pleasure you won't tell her/him about?faultypidgeon@programming.dev to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 14 days agomessage-square123fedilink
minus-squareZahille7@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up66arrow-down8·edit-214 days agoWhy isn’t it just common practice to just use “they” instead the entirely cumbersome “he/her”? Like it’s just so much easier to type out and say, and it’s just better to use regardless.
minus-squareTyoda@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up33arrow-down2·14 days agoThe fun part is that you’ll have people complaining about it either way!
minus-squaresnooggums@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11arrow-down17·edit-214 days agoI am offended by your use of ‘people’, that excludes folk and kin! Rawr!
minus-squareTyoda@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up6arrow-down1·14 days agoYou were not appreciated in your time.
minus-squarexmunk@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up32arrow-down4·14 days agoYea, but the people who complain about “they” are assholes so we can safely ignore them.
minus-squareGeometrinen_Gepardi@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up7arrow-down35·14 days agoBecause “they” refers to multiple people?
minus-squareFondots@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up21·14 days agoMy friend forgot their umbrella at the office. They nervously answered the phone. They’re a lazy motherfucker. I gave my friend a hug and wished them a speedy recovery. Any of those sound unusual, or like they’re referring to more than one person?
minus-squareAlinor@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up40·14 days agoIt doesn’t though. They has been used for singular without knowing the gender for a long time.
minus-squareZahille7@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up15·14 days agoLike at least since English has been a language.
minus-squarehenfredemars@infosec.publinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·13 days agoI was taught this very aggressively in school, but it turns out that it’s just not true and there’s a long history of singular they.
minus-squareEvkob@lemmy.calinkfedilinkarrow-up29arrow-down2·14 days agoSingular “they” actually predates singular “you”.
minus-squarefaultypidgeon@programming.devOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up7arrow-down2·13 days agoLove how the top comment doesn’t even answer the question. But TIL, I guess. If I had known this option existed, I probably would have used it. I’m going to play the “not a native english speaker”-card on this one.
minus-squareEvkob@lemmy.calinkfedilinkarrow-up19·14 days agoNot only is it more readable and aesthetically-pleasing, singular “they” is more inclusive of people outside the gender binary!
Why isn’t it just common practice to just use “they” instead the entirely cumbersome “he/her”?
Like it’s just so much easier to type out and say, and it’s just better to use regardless.
The fun part is that you’ll have people complaining about it either way!
I am offended by your use of ‘people’, that excludes folk and kin!
Rawr!
You were not appreciated in your time.
Yea, but the people who complain about “they” are assholes so we can safely ignore them.
Because “they” refers to multiple people?
My friend forgot their umbrella at the office.
They nervously answered the phone.
They’re a lazy motherfucker.
I gave my friend a hug and wished them a speedy recovery.
Any of those sound unusual, or like they’re referring to more than one person?
It doesn’t though. They has been used for singular without knowing the gender for a long time.
Like at least since English has been a language.
I was taught this very aggressively in school, but it turns out that it’s just not true and there’s a long history of singular they.
Singular “they” actually predates singular “you”.
Love how the top comment doesn’t even answer the question. But TIL, I guess. If I had known this option existed, I probably would have used it. I’m going to play the “not a native english speaker”-card on this one.
Not only is it more readable and aesthetically-pleasing, singular “they” is more inclusive of people outside the gender binary!