Like if i were to use lemmy almost everyday or post in community’s would that annoy people or is it ok? I had a reddit addiction very bad and im trying to replace it with lemmy…

Thoughts?

  • SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Tl;Dr: be nice, engage in content, and don’t troll, and most people won’t be bothered.

    It likely won’t annoy anyone unless your content itself is actively bothering people. A certain fungally named user posts and comments constantly and I typically enjoy their content, while another brachycephalic canid religious savior does the same but constantly stirred shit so went on my block list. Content good, melodrama bad. People will like you if you are reasonably kind, respectful, and genuine.

    Usage time really is a personal choice. I track my usage and keep it to 1.5 hours (2.5 on occasion, like if I’m sick) or less daily. Otherwise, it starts to adversely affect my mental health and personal relations.

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    This can be applied generally to any activity, but when interacting with Lemmy starts making you feel anxious or upset, then it’s too much. It’s OK to spend a lot of time online, just make sure to take care of your mental health!

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    People sometimes get annoyed if its an overwheming amount posted at once, in one place but generally you’re fine. If you want a rough guideline, I’d say to keep it to three posts per community per day, unless its busy enough that you can blend in to the crowd.

    That said, unless its against the rules, you can also just ignore the people whining. Even downvotes don’t matter as much here as on Reddit.

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    I think it depends a lot on the community and what you’re posting.

    But in general, if you’re posting good quality, relevant content and not just spamming with every article you come across, engaging with people in the comments, not x-posting things to a bunch of different communities, and of course not being a dick, I don’t think there’s an issue.

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    The biggest key is the quality of posting. If you’re posting a fuck ton, but it’s amazing content that fits the community and does well then yeah it’s great. If you’re just reposting memes from other communities or straight up trolling then that shit gets annoying real fast.

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      18 hours ago

      Or a continuous stream of super bizarre questions:

      Is it strange that I haven’t left the house for two weeks?

      My boyfriend won’t sleep with me unless I wear the mermaid costume. Red flag?

      Has anyone else noticed that their poop tastes different after a change in diet?

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          That’s not a stupid at all! That’s actually a very important question!

          YES! Be VERY careful around the buzzing! That means the ion shields have been activated and if you accidentally step into them, the bugs can enter your brain passage.

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    19 hours ago

    There is no “too active”. Participate genuinely in discourse, and don’t be a spambot or clickbait poster. I think that’s really all anyone wants, regardless of if it’s Lemmy or another service.

    As someone that’s been here a while, Lemmy a few years ago used to be a once-a-week thing because there wasn’t that much content. Now I have no problems using it multiple times a day and always see new stuff.

    So, engage at the level you’d like to, and know that your engagement is driving others to consume and participate also.

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    16 hours ago

    I’ve blocked a couple bots that post seemingly every article from specific sites. It’s too bad because some of those articles were worth reading, but it was too much in my home feed, so they’re gone.