I find it interesting that some people are strictly monogamous while others are on the complete opposite end of the spectrum and prefer exclusively non-monogamous arrangements. I respect all variations; I’m just curious about the influences behind them. Personally, I’m monogamous myself, but I’m okay with my husband being with other women as long as I don’t feel neglected and he’s discreet about it. I think this perspective has been influenced by my parents’ marriage.
I believe it to be a trait, like the sexual orientation, that is preset. It might, due to past experiences, vary a bit, but … I doubt that it can be changed entirely.
~But, as I said, that’s not more than just a belief of mine.~