Look, I have been annoying on the website, but this Is my only form of getting out my thoughts. I see so many women on tiktok that say thar they only want white guys, and I feel like I’m and minorities are too western that they only want the majority of the country’s population, which is white people in most western nations. When I mean biracial, I mean half black and white. It’s like so many are white washed that they only want white men, then they complain that their own men put white women on the pedelstal. I don’t, btw. I go for any race, but biracial women seal the deal for me.
Get off tiktok, go outside and meet real people.
This is the answer OP.
Based on your post history, you desperately need to seek therapy. A therapist can help you work through this better than anyone on the internet.
Maybe self reflection and talking to a therapist instead of continuing to blame women? Seriously.
You admit to being “annoying on the website” , which means you understand how much time you’re taking with all of these posts. Instead of asking yet another question about “do x race like black men?”, realize that no race is homogeneous, and racists exist in every group of people. If it seems like every woman you try to talk to is rejecting you, it’s not because you’re black. It’s because you can’t accept/recognize your own shortcomings, and instead assume everyone is being racist. Stop spending so much time propping up and attempting to reinforce this idea, it’s obviously causing you a lot of distress while preventing you from growing as a person. Take that time to think about past experiences that you’ve previously labeled as racism, and consider how you were behaving and how that could be perceived by the other person. If you still have contact with these women, ask them straight up what it is that turned them away from you, and listen to what they say, even if you don’t agree.
When you see strangers interacting via video, you see people judging each other by some of the most superficial criteria possible.
In real life, most people get past those considerations within minutes, and the ones who don’t aren’t worth interacting with in real life anyway.
Go touch grass.
It’s got nothing to do with your race. People like people. If someone you’re looking to date says they only date white guys, then they’re a racist asshole who doesn’t deserve your time.
You seem to be capable of self reflection, at least starting to be so. Expand on that. Love yourself being single first, other people will notice that and want to be around you. Project that positivity and love from within, not desperation.
