I’m starting to wonder what the real benefit even is anymore. Between the technofeudal landscape we live in, where billionaires own the means of communication, data is constantly mined for profit, and surveillance is baked into every layer, it feels like I’m standing at the beach, using my bare hands to push back an endless tide.
Even when I take the so‑called “liberated” path through Linux, self‑hosting, and privacy tools, it often feels futile. The web itself is poisoned. Browsers are turning into tracking engines. Sites rely on manipulation and dark patterns. Social media is full of misinformation and ragebait.
Even open-source projects are being pulled under corporate influence (ex: Firefox adoption of AI).
It feels exhausting to route around a web that’s already been captured.
So I’m asking myself: what’s the point? Why not just step away?
Why not trade the illusion of digital control for actual peace, get a dumb phone, a CD player, and check out books, movies, music, and games from the library as my entertainment?
Does anyone else feel this way? Have you found ways to reconnect with technology?
You do realize that a CD player, books, music, games etc are technology too right? Yes modern corpo tech is bullshit but that is not the fault of technology and there are alternatives to everything. Its a question of convenience. Do you want to be spoon fed with a pretty solution that gets marketed to everyone? Well you gonna have a bad time in the long run…
I thought the same thing, to be clear. But it’s also clear that OP referred to neo-corpo-shit tech that’s prevalent today.
Im… Getting there. For now I built my own cloud at home… But browsers themselves are becoming a problem.
I’ve gone the other way with it. I feel galvanised to try and help the laymen break free from our digital prisons; attempting to migrate people to decentralisation as a concept; as in my eyes it’s the only way we’ll ever move out from under this technocratic structure we find ourselves stuck in.
It’s one hell of an uphill battle, but the hardest part (convincing others to try something new) is becoming easier just thanks to the rampant enshittification in every product. My driving force for most of it has been the desire to see my country break free from reliance on American tech; which if you know anything about the UK; it’s an incredibly pie in the sky ambition… But I remain hopeful.
My advice would be to learn (if you’re not already familiar ofc) containerisation as a concept and spin up services that offer real alternatives to what people rely so heavily upon.
The only way the world can escape the likes of Zuckerberg and Musk, is if people like me and you show them how to implement an alternative.
I’m the same. I was telling a friend the other day that despite how grim modern tech often is, I feel hopeful when I see how many people are taking solace in making cool things for them and their community, as well as doing valuable infrastructure work to try and make tech a useful tool for liberation.
A good example of the latter thing is this encrypted messaging app that works via a Bluetooth mesh network, providing a way for Palestinians to stay in contact even when the internet and cell service are turned off. The UK is closer than I would like to needing to use tech like this, so it bolsters my resolve to be able of such efforts to resist.
I don’t know if I’ve checked out of technology, I just only use the stuff I want. YouTube can be insidious for me but yeah unless it’s for work I just do some hobby Linux or programming stuff. I prefer e-readers, I access lemmy over the web instead of an app, I mostly use my phone for it’s GPS and communication.
But I get a lot more enjoyment from hanging out with my friends doing outside stuff. Why not get involved in the maker space, do electronics and stuff.
billionaires own the means of communication
Billionaires own PieFed/Lemmy? Damn. Didn’t know that.
Ohhh you mean they own the shitty parts of the Internet? Yeah it’s simple, don’t use them.
I understand your point hence my upvote. I don’t know about you, but I mainly use Lemmy on a phone made by Apple. Many of my friends use Google phones and Microsoft desktops.
most people can still only be contacted through facebook messenger and whatsapp
Well giving up on tech certainly won’t help with keeping in contact with those people.
I hope there will be a backlash. Stop subscribing en masse for a few months and maybe they’ll see the benefits of being positive and assisting society rather than all of the Snidely Whiplash bullshit that is going on.
Yeah im currently on a sabbatical and I dont think I will go back to working in tech.
But ive been working with it for 25 years in different roles. Im just tired of seeing the same thing being reinvented again and again under different names. I dont feel excited about micro services or AI or blockchain. Its just more and more complexity all the time and its exhausting, not interesting.
It depends on your level of expertise. It is still the case for a good senior technician. They unfortunately don’t grow on trees and the better the guy the more he’s dancing on the nose of his working environment.
IT Professional here.
I’ve been ready to burn it all down for about 20 years now.
Whenever I got called for an issue, I would tell the user “eh, just throw it out the window,” and then they would laugh like I was joking or something
Is it a printer? Hold on. I will come help you throw it out the window.
Cool, Maintenance said we can use their appliance dolly if we let em watch
I have to admit I gave up a bit on resisting.
When I quickly want to look something up and are hit with “Allow all tracking or manage your choices?” I click allow, cause it happens 20x a day and I’m done with this shit.
I use the default apps on my phone cause I don’t have the whole day to customize after switching phones anymore.
I uninstalled NoScript cause it made the internet unusable.When I quickly want to look something up and are hit with “Allow all tracking or manage your choices?” I click allow, cause it happens 20x a day and I’m done with this shit.
I rarely see that. I use ublock origin for years now, on PC and phone, with the social and annoyance filters turned on.
I use the default apps on my phone cause I don’t have the whole day to customize after switching phones anymore.
I don’t switch phones that often, and I like to know that I can trust my phone.
I uninstalled NoScript cause it made the internet unusable.
yeah noscript is a bit hardcore. ublock origin is basically set and forget. but it won’t work on chrome, there it only has a lite version that can only do ad blocking, to some extent. if you want to block trackers effectively that only works on firefox.
I will not touch on the NoScript topic, it works fine for me, but I could recommend you blocking Cookie Banners in uBlock Origin. That way you don’t have to click anything.
There is the whole thing with hospitals using technology and I do like navigation systems and such too.
But yeah apps in general if I find myself using too much I will delete on spot and social media layouts were too confusing for me anyways.
Only exception has been voyager because it’s a source of news not funded by literal fascists.
I do sometimes, but I always try to recognize that this is EXACTLY how someone trying to bring you down wants you to feel. If basically nobody exists any more that practices and advertises a way that avoids the abuse, then the path will truly become dead until something radically changes. Until that moment, and not a moment later. And tricking you into apathy is just a very effective strategy to accelerate that.
I still remember getting into tech, and just constantly expanding my horizon with new tools and tutorials. Without those, I probably never would have gotten there, and would probably just have been like the rest. Knowing such people are out there looking for that spark, it want them to be able to find it too. Some things you must do without being able to know if it’s working or not.
Reminds me of a joke I heard a few years ago.
The “Tech Enthusiast” : My whole home is rigged up with smart systems! I can control my AC and my lights from my phone from 1,000 miles away!
The Tech Engineer : the most recent piece of equipment I own in my home is a printer from 2003 and I keep a loaded gun next to it in case it makes a noise I don’t recognize.
joke
Ahaha, yep, totally a joke.
Honestly, you should just step away. Tech is best when it’s viewed as a tool to achieve your goals, not as a goal in its own right.
Not completely, but more and more I find peace of mind in analog and offline spaces. Physical books feel better than e-books, a real bike is more fun than a Peleton (cheaper too), and cooking my own food is better than GrubHub.
I have an IT education background, but I’ve worked as a mechanic for most of my adult life. I’m a tool using primate. Tech is a tool. If a new tool improves on the old and makes life easier, I use it. If it doesn’t, it’s not worth having around. When your job is fixing things, “ain’t broke, don’t fix it” makes a lot of sense.
I’m not going to bend over backwards for tech that I don’t need just because a rich CEO tells me it’s revolutionary. I can flip a light switch, lock my doors, make a grocery list without the help of an AI fridge, and write my own emails.
The problem comes when there are no more non-AI fridges around and people start mocking you for building your own dumb fridge, you weirdo.
That’s usually how it goes.
The trouble I’d have to go through to build a dumb fridge would bother me more than people talking shit about me building or owning one.
People can talk shit all they want, don’t mean I’m gonna listen.
Im stuck (deliberately) about the year 2010 ish tech wise… People need automation to turn on a light switch, i long ago figured out how to open my curtains sans alexa as well.
Alas everything enshitifies.
