Looking for both logical and emotional reinforcements, from casual acquaintances to intimate partners, and any orientation if not especially, everyone matters.
Frame it as a “friend” if you’d like, but I would like to know what made an impactful impression on you personally, above and beyond any hypothetical.
Weird? No. Needy? Yes.
One of the only things a romantic interest that ever told me that made me feel better about my body was just an unironic “You’re beautiful”.
Because, like, I’m a dude and was kind of desensitized to people platonically telling me I was handsome when I was clearly slumming it. But when this woman said I was beatiful I kind of believed it because she wasn’t just talking about my face. It was more something she thought I was doing.
Basically I’ll be riding that high the rest of my life, if you have male friends and they aren’t insecure about gender then tell them they’re beautiful. It feels different.
Basically I’ll be riding that high the rest of my life…
You were probably half-joking about this, but yes, you will.
Nah, men are pretty well aware that we won’t be receiving any affection in life. We savor what we can get.
