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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I agree with the last statement at about a 70% level. The last 30% missing is - like you can’t tickle yourself, there’s some sensations that are different just because another person does them to you.

    I’m not anti relationship, it’s just when viewing sex alone a lot of the things I experienced with someone else are just overrated. With very very few exceptions when I met humans with extremely high emotional intelligence.

    But maybe in the end that’s all a discussion, that we all are generally bad in knowing and communicating what feels good for each other.





  • I’m 53 now and was considering getting an official diagnosis a few years ago, I even had the initial appointments set up.

    I canceled it, because there was too much going on in my life at that moment (even got a notification I could reschedule for later)

    All that made me think about what I was hoping for from diagnosis. In the end it was just having something in writing that would help me with self-acceptance.

    Around that time I also was in a group psychotherapy so I talked about that and that part is now solved.

    Regarding meds - I don’t want to try them now as my other coping strategies are good enough at the moment and I’m a bit wary of side effects as I need to take a handful of. medicine every day, anyways.

    In the end you need to decide why you want a diagnosis. If you want to try meds I’d go for it. (My son “inherited” it from me and had meds for a time, which really helped him).

    In a case like mine where I didn’t expect any new strategies out of it or didn’t want meds - it was probably the right decision to skip it.