• Zexks@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    If you can’t find anything useful on the net that’s a ‘you’ problem. So probably option 2.

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    2 months ago

    I think it’s probably mostly that first thing. There’s only two-three websites I visit on the daily anymore. The rest isn’t worth it.

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    2 months ago

    The internet itself offers immense value across nearly all facets of life. The three websites that everyone uses do not.

  • AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet@lemmy.world
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    The internet is a lot less valuable than it was even just a couple of years ago. It’s considerably less valuable than ten years ago. That said, given your username and the laundry list in another comment, I’m going to vote “the problem is both A and B”. Seek help for B. Go outside more for A and B.

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    Define “the internet” though…

    If you’re expecting “the internet” to fill your cup with joy then sure, that’s probably not going to work out.

    That said, there’s plenty of good bits that make life a lot easier.

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    I bounce back and forth, depending on my mood (obviously) and whether or not I have any sort of creative projects to work on or anything that’s keeping me mentally busy (whether it’s a game, a series, a book, a design, research, just something that I feel interested in or passionate about). If I have nothing that’s really driving me, that’s when I feel at my lowest or I’m just mindlessly consuming crap and the days all just sort of blend together, I’m just going through the motions and the world feels dead, or I feel dead, whichever. When I’m in the midst of a creative project though, I get laser focused on that and forget all about everything else and I have purpose. Sometimes though, I’m just meh, like not really driven, but not really depressed.

    The Internet that I grew up with though is definitely gone, alot of it feels shallow now, like I don’t go on tangents upon tangents anymore and it doesn’t have the same sense of exploration that it used to. Like I used to find a random page, which had links to other random pages, which had links to other pages, and I would just follow this breadcrumb trail from one place to another. Now you’ve got shitty social media aggregating links and it just doesn’t feel the same. The closest I’ll get to that is going through Wikipedia if I happen to be researching or looking something up, occasionally you just find other topics that get really interesting. The history of Wargames is the latest thing that’s been holding my interest.

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    Yeah really the internet is annoying nowadays The young lads are quarrelling on stupid things The good old internet where everyone tries something new is all over. All are getting drowsy with you. But… But… Internet is really personified nowdays. I won’t probably see what you see on the internet. You might be bored of the current internet Check out !internetisbeautiful@feddit.de and other subs Find out how you can change your internet Connect with more friends. Find out how they make out their internet

    Meanwhile look back how beautiful the offline world is

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      1.) I could give two shits about what the internet thinks on any given subject.

      2.) I am not movitivated to use the internet for fun things like gaming, anymore.

      3.) I want to crawl into a hole and fall asleep forever listening only to the humming of a sweet old lady.

      4.) I look into my own eyes and see nothing.

      5.) … I dunno… I check the fridge for cheese more often then I check my own text messages.

      6.) I took up smoking again and I don’t even feel bad about the possible slow torturous death of lung cancer that awaits me.

      7.) If I hear a child I am instantly annoyed(please don’t hate me I don’t have any kids of my own)

      8.)I cannot write any

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        A rollercoaster. It was dropping until the cheese thing, which I think is just normal, unspoken behavior. Sounds to me like a bout of depression, or at least what I think is depression. I 100% get the same lethargy to life, and it tends to come in waves.

        If you haven’t, I’d look at having a chat with a professional. I’m not a good role model for this, but I have pushed through the lulls more times than I care to admit, and it gets tougher every year. The negative thoughts set in and create this negative feedback loop that makes functioning difficult, and digs a hole that’s hard to climb out of.

        Anecdotally, if this is new to you, it doesn’t make for a happy life. I’m working to get help, but there are roadblocks. I would encourage you to try the same. If it doesn’t help, then you can cross that bridge later. If it does, then you’ll be in a much better place and the light will shine again.

        …or the Internet really is just shitty.

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        I’mma go with number two for a sure bet, could be number one too, but number two for sure

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        The Internet is not supposed to be a source of happiness, that’s a sell by some platforms you should never buy into. The Internet is a source of information, and information will not make you happy.

        Gaming, social media, or most other online interaction, is ultimately masturbation. It feels good for the moment, but it doesn’t last; you have nothing to look back on but Steam achievements or vacant profiles on a dead platform at the end.

        If you’re suffering from depression, you likely can’t work yourself out of it through your own actions alone. Seek support. Things will not improve otherwise.

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        I don’t want to fuck up your depression status or anything like that, but being this honest with yourself sounds sort of cool… in a way… you know?

        It sounds like a beginning of something or… a wave.

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        You’ve got a real way with words. I really like number 3.

        So what do you do for fun if not internet or gaming?? Read books? Lol (jk I like books, but they’re a more subtle fun)

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    Maybe we were all dead inside to begin with … and then we created an internet that offered nothing of value in return.

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      For half a moment, that shared nothingness created something new, but then they came and chopped it off into small, blend, mouth sized pieces that never make you full.