Most people just want a good life. If we stopped seeing each other as the enemies the world could be better.

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    10 hours ago

    Amen.

    What the people who want to control us don’t want us to realize is that you have a lot more in common with the Chinese/Russian/Ukrainian/Mexican/Indian working class… Factory worker/programmer/hard-working house wife… Then you do with your own political leaders and billionaires. People with servants who don’t ever worry about bills. (Biden, Trump, Harris, Vance, Elon, Gates, Bezos, etc)… Don’t look at the foreigners as different and the enemy… Look at the Rich and the Politicians (who want us to blame the foreigners)

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    10 hours ago

    Some are fascists. Some are not. That’s a pretty big distinction.

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    I’m not sure that’s true. One side has empathy. The other does not. I don’t want to be friends with someone who doesn’t have empathy.

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      I kind of see your point there. My hope though is that maybe people could gain more empathy for each other by understanding that we are all human and I hope that one day people can understand each other’s struggles.

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      9 hours ago

      The world is not binary like that. Your side is not all good and the other side is not all bad.

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    No. Some people want to control other people because of their various sky daddies or a simple greed. And those are the ones fucking up your life. Everyone else could more or less get along, but fanatics, billionaires and other people hungry for control of others are actively make sure we don’t.

  • ERROR: Earth.exe has crashed@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    I think of people who vote for bad politicans as useful idiots.

    The average voter actually believe trump will make things better. There are people to somehow still believe trump isnt a racist. I don’t know whats going on with their brains.

    Like, of course there are those who are bigots and want more bigotry in government, but there are also many who are not exactly hateful racists or misogynists, they simply aren’t that smart and easily get swayed by social media posts.

    Think of them as victims of a scam (well, except that this is a on a much bigger scale and have more serious consequences 🙁)

    I mean I don’t expect people to forgive them for what they voted for, I mean I personally would have a hard time being around those types of people, but like, would you tell your grandparents: “It’s your fault you got scammed”

    I feel like a hypocrite for saying this, because on an emotional level, I hate hate everyone who voted for the fascist. But then when I think about the situation with my rational part of my brain, I realize people are just idiots and fall victim to the fascist scam. Its not necessary the person, but its that this is what our species is. A biological machine that although capable of rational thought, can still be easily manipulated.

    Yelling at a person and telling them that they are stupid isnt gonna get them out of the scam, but talking to them might.

    We aren’t in a civil war yet, there might still time for dialogue.

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    This is true, but some of us are actually very different. That’s not always a bad thing, either.

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    I only see people as an enemy if they’ve declared themselves as such. I’m not gonna make the first move, life is too short to make enemies with everyone I meet. That said, if you’ve got a swastika tattooed on your forehead then I’m gonna take that as a declaration that you’re my enemy.

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    Idk one side wants to enslave, murder, and rape. The other does not.

    Let’s just be friends as they take away my rights and everyone I love rights away, we shouldn’t be enemies as they hunt down and murder someone for “existing”

    Maybe we shouldn’t be friends with the enemy and fight against the regime?

    This is one of the was Nazis came into power, by manipulating the mass thinking “oh we should all be friends” and now look what happened.

    -a trans non-binary disabled person

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      solidarity means solidarity. other working class people are not your enemy (re: 1984). the all or nothing mindset accomplishes nothing besides closing your mind off to the plights and perspectives of others.

      -also trans and disabled

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      Idk one side wants to enslave, murder, and rape. The other does not.

      Advocating for OP, that’s the learnt way they see how they can become comfortable.

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      Idk one side wants to enslave, murder, and rape. The other does not.

      Seeing people hold this kind of views is fucking depressing.

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      There aren’t only two sides to every issue. Thinking like that is limiting.

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    Yes, it gets problematic as soon as extreme positions and mentalities enter the equation. All extrem positions are toxic, extreme left, extreme right, extreme religious (any religion), extreme fans of a sports club, extreme anything doesn’t matter.

    If we could find some kind of balance, some true middle ground without huge extremes, then the world would be a much nicer place.

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    10 hours ago

    If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us shall we not revenge?