It’s been difficult to broach the subject and explain the technical concepts to the average person. I did have some success in first sharing the email comparison, which lead into interoperability.

I’m just curious to hear people’s success stories, if you have any.

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    I dont. Its honestly not great. I’d rather that effort went to preserving and repairing the existing tools of the free and open web – the old protocols are extensible. Imagine if we had an RSS client with a “reblog” feature!

    “Federation” adds overhead and honestly creates as many problems as it solves. It’s not a selling point, its a price tag.

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    “Cool place, like a bunch of connected forums, but avoid the .ml instances and Hexbear”

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    I ask if they’ve heard of mastodon because most people with any ties to the internet have. Then I say there’s a new wave of platforms that are all federated, kinda like how like someone could send an email from a user @aol.clm to a user @msn.com or whatever, which means there’s no real way to centralize the platforms.

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      I know mastodon is very popular and I’ve browsed around a few times, but i don’t really get it. It’s person following instead of topic following, right? I had a Twitter account, but i only followed local bars, music venues, etc. to see upcoming events and happy hours deals. I can’t think of a person i would want to follow.

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        For Twitter-alikes (Mastodon, Misskey, etc.) you probably want to be following hashtags instead of people, though that’s not really what the UI will initially drive you towards. That’ll let you follow topics and interests, with the option of also following people you find interesting from the hashtags you’re following.

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      Not one person that I’ve told so far has been aware of Mastodon, unfortunately. At this point, if I met someone in real life that actually knew about the Fediverse already, I’d probably shit a brick.

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    So far I don’t. I’m still learning the platform. So far I think what I imagined Lemmy to be ISN’T what I imagined it as. It COULD be that. It chooses not to. Not only is there a lack of organization, but also the policies of the platform basically PROHIBIT them from becoming moderated in a fair balanced way. Yes I see that modlog. It does nothing if the moderation team is also corrupt.

    I’m not saying it currently is or isn’t corrupt. Thats not the issue. The issue is, a lot of people come from reddit because their automod is now banning things due to bad AI. Even if you appeal, they claim a human looks at it, but that’s not true.

    Instead, I come to Lemmy, thinking that each instances mod team ONLY had control over their instance. If that mod bans you, I THOUGHT they’d only ban you from that instance. You take your account to a new instance. Their mods could then choose to accept your migration, or deny it. You find an instance where a human reviews your reason for being banned, and if you did anything wrong you’d be rejected there too. If that instance finds you did nothing wrong, they accept you.

    This allows mods to keep power over their individual bubbles. Yet not have the ability to gain authoritarian control.

    And yes, it ALSO means that users who do ban worthy offenses WOULDN’T be banned platform wide. And at first glance that sounds wrong. It means that yes, the far right would have a place to fester. But also every other instance would defederate from that one instance. So they would essentially be an echo chamber that the rest of lemmy would never see. It also means if you’re on an instance that is turning into a place you don’t agree with, you can migrate before that instance becomes defederated.

    As it is now, this is just reddit, with more steps, and more confusing.

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      you can move your account though, there are buttons to export and import on your settings page

      it won’t bring your post/comment history with you, but it will carry over your subscriptions and saved/bookmarked posts/comments

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        They need to make the next update allow the transfer to include EVERYTHING. Posts and comments too.

        I think that may be the most important update we need.

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          would be cool but I don’t think the ActivityPub protocol allows that

          it’s kind of outside of Lemmy’s control

          personally I don’t care that much about post history or karma or whatever

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      That level you describe also exists – instances are self-policing their users, though it’s an admin thing, not a mod one (mods are for communities).

      lemm.ee just posted some numbers for the year and after kbin.social, which seems to get many spam accounts, they’re mostly banning lemm.ee users for misbehaving. No great need to ban .world users because .world admins are keeping their own ship clean, “are your users a bother to me” is a big factor in federation politics.

      OTOH not giving communities the ability to police themselves would leads to problems because the only way to deal with anything would be to choose the nuclear option: You might get heated in a discussion about your favourite comic book character and lash out, calling people names, but otherwise be perfectly reasonable, the mods temp-banning you from their community is the right approach, there, not making you switch instances, or depriving others of the furry porn you post to the same instance as the comic community is on, or whatnot.

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        I think you’re misunderstanding what I’m saying. I’m not saying thats mods/admins shouldn’t have the ability to ban you from their community. Temporarily or permanently.

        I’m saying that, to take your example, you get into a heated debate over a comic book. And the mod or admin there bans you. Not from their community, not from their instance, but from ALL of Lemmy.

        That’s what I think shouldn’t happen. I don’t think ANY admin or mod should be able to ban you from the whole platform. They can certainly ban you from their space, but not from all spaces at once.

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          They can’t ban you from the whole platform it just so happens if some admin wants you gone chances are your home instance admin wants you gone, too.

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            Alright, now if your home instance mod bans you, you can then still log in, and move your account to a different instance then, right?

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              I’m not exactly sure but often the whole comment history is nuked so there’s really nothing left to migrate.

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      I really don’t agree that it’s ‘just reddit with more steps…’

      This place really feels different to me, and better. I like it here. Sorry you’ve been having mod troubles. I’ve not run into problems there, so can’t really relate.

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    Why would I tell them about “the fediverse”? Tell them that you use Lemmy or Mastodon or whatever. If they are interested then give them a link to a good instance. That’s it.

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        It really depends. I would only recommend lemmy if they’re a techy. If they’re highly integrated into mainstream social media then it would be a 7/10 recommend. If they want to find an alternative then 10/10 recommend.

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      Fair. I just find it interesting and want to share it. I should just let them decide on their own if it’s something they find interesting or not. I’ll try to remember to just give them an app recommend instead.

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      I send a fiend of mine image macros and shitposts from here

      They’re like “WHERE DO YOU GET THESE MEMES”

      I say “Lemmy, it’s like Reddit minus so much corpo garb”

      They say “the fuck is a lemmy”

      I send the link to voyager and say “all you gotta do is sign up on one of these places I think you’d like”

      They’re still just on tiktok

      I have tried

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      Definitely. People don’t care what’s behind. They just want an app or a website.

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    Subtly, not by pushing it on them directly. Instead, I share links to topics that might interest them. Show people the value.

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      I left Reddit because of their shenanigans. The Tiktok crowd deciding Reddit was cool was what guaranteed I would never go back. Now if anyone asks me if I use social media, I just say “No”.

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    Usually as loudly as possible while wildly gesticulating and showing huge quantities of bloodshot eyeball. Seems effective so far, will continue to report in.

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      But have you tried frothing? Just a little at the corners of your mouth really helps get the point across.

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        I usually save the frothing for people who I can tell are really interested, but don’t want to join up for some absurd reason. I don’t know why they would lie about their feelings like that, but a bit of shouting and frothing in a corner really gets them agreeable fast. Great technique!